Minyo diay siya...

[chococat]

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I was 8mos. pregnant when I found out that he was actually married. Though sige jud ko'g ask niya before if minyo ba siya coz he has kids with his ex-gf. Kampante ra pud ko ky dugay na man daw sila'ng buwag, almost 10 years na daw. And his mom even assured me nga di ko angay ma balaka ky pangasaw-on lagi daw ko. So, ni salig ra pud ko niya. And then, the time came that I saw an old ID of his' and ang nakabutang nga status kay "MARRIED". Ako jud gi balik2x ug tan-aw ang ID, hoping nga sayop akong panan-aw but dili man jud. After that, we had a short argument. He's reason for not telling me was that he was afraid he'd loose me and he kept on telling me nga wala na jud daw sila. More than 10yrs na jd daw sila wa ga kita. Finally I just ignored the issue coz ma apektohan unya akong baby w/ the ill feelings. Pero despite ato, di ko kasabot nganong di jud gihapon nako makuha nga mag lagot niya. I still love him, but naa gihapon ang pain --- pati na ang pain sa kauwaw of having a child out of wedlock.


If you were in my shoes, what would you do?!

[icon_king]

i consulta lang na ug abogado. mas maka esplekar na sya maayo nimu

[akosabni]

kong dli ka ka.buwag, use protection

[bowee]

well technically he is Married.. but you said it yourself.. DUGAY NA SILA NAGBUWAG... so that means that OLD I.D. you found, was the I.D. he had used when he was still married with his significant other...

you better try to know which grounds are you going to stood by.. know by really looking on his married certificate or go to the church and consult NSO with regards to your 'husband''s really status...

If I know.. he is really married still though estrange as it seems with his wife.. if wala sila nag file ug annulment or legal separation, then he is really still - MARRIED.. in the eyes of the law, the church and the people.. and it would be a losing end on your part.. if soon, his WIFE might decide to pursue a case against you for Adultery and/or BIGAMY on your husband..

Not only the fact that you can be JAILED for it.. Tinkagol ka sa prisohan if mudaog ang iyang wife sa case iya nyang ipasaka sa inyong duha.. Your baby cannot and will not inherit anything from your husband pa jud kay technically speaking.. he is a GOD DAMN MARRIED GUY!...

As early as now, ACT swiftly before its too late.... for your peace of mind...

[kuyabog]

here is the short stick of it:

if you love him and he loves you, then that is a good ground to stand on.

he should file annulment in that case. no matter how long they have been estranged from each other, they are still legally married.

if he truly loves you, he should do that on his own.

if he waits for you to tell him to file an annulment, then i would raise and alarm over that.

your top most concern now is the baby. be prepared to be a single mom...in case he decides to abandon you.

most guys who do not tell the truth from the beginning about their status are either just playing around or they do not really know what true love is.

[kimleeKINO_choi]

I was 8mos. pregnant when I found out that he was actually married. Though sige jud ko'g ask niya before if minyo ba siya coz he has kids with his ex-gf. Kampante ra pud ko ky dugay na man daw sila'ng buwag, almost 10 years na daw. And his mom even assured me nga di ko angay ma balaka ky pangasaw-on lagi daw ko. So, ni salig ra pud ko niya. And then, the time came that I saw an old ID of his' and ang nakabutang nga status kay "MARRIED". Ako jud gi balik2x ug tan-aw ang ID, hoping nga sayop akong panan-aw but dili man jud. After that, we had a short argument. He's reason for not telling me was that he was afraid he'd loose me and he kept on telling me nga wala na jud daw sila. More than 10yrs na jd daw sila wa ga kita. Finally I just ignored the issue coz ma apektohan unya akong baby w/ the ill feelings. Pero despite ato, di ko kasabot nganong di jud gihapon nako makuha nga mag lagot niya. I still love him, but naa gihapon ang pain --- pati na ang pain sa kauwaw of having a child out of wedlock.


If you were in my shoes, what would you do?!

mao lge ni sis..kani mga lalki MAAYO KAAYO MODALAG ISTORYA...kita pod girls dali rpod mailad..hehe peace y'all!! heheh pero sa imo case....sakit mnjud sis..normal rana...ok? Prayers nalang jud imo maduolan....selfish ra kaayo ang imo uyab oie..tsk3

[cebu_doki]

nice man jud ni mo karenyo ang minyo esp the guys ! maayo mo sulti. mau sad in bed. . . . mao mingawon gyud ang gurl if katilaw na sa love . . . . wala paman legal case so just stick on it for the meantime. enjoy while it is still going and the going getting stronger

[vyrene321]

well technically he is Married.. but you said it yourself.. DUGAY NA SILA NAGBUWAG... so that means that OLD I.D. you found, was the I.D. he had used when he was still married with his significant other...

you better try to know which grounds are you going to stood by.. know by really looking on his married certificate or go to the church and consult NSO with regards to your 'husband''s really status...

If I know.. he is really married still though estrange as it seems with his wife.. if wala sila nag file ug annulment or legal separation, then he is really still - MARRIED.. in the eyes of the law, the church and the people.. and it would be a losing end on your part.. if soon, his WIFE might decide to pursue a case against you for Adultery and/or BIGAMY on your husband..

Not only the fact that you can be JAILED for it.. Tinkagol ka sa prisohan if mudaog ang iyang wife sa case iya nyang ipasaka sa inyong duha.. Your baby cannot and will not inherit anything from your husband pa jud kay technically speaking.. he is a GOD DAMN MARRIED GUY!...

As early as now, ACT swiftly before its too late.... for your peace of mind...

I AGREE....

there is a legal process. it is easily to file annulment expecially if it's more than 7yrs no communication from both parties

if he is willing and truthfully honest to you na ikaw jud iyang pakaslan let him go through this process..

pero if ikaw pud ang dili na sure with your dcition.... just think about it this way.. hindi kasal ang sagot sa problema mo.

[nailv]

mao na diha.... cge... tira pa mog minyo.. mao man na inyong ganahan! MINYO!

[aLohaBby]

mao na diha.... cge... tira pa mog minyo.. mao man na inyong ganahan! MINYO!

i think you're barking at the wrong tree. the TS clearly said it nga na ilad siya. so if imong huna-hunaon, nga kung wa siya gi ilad e di dili unta ni mahitabo sa iya.

to the TS, better make things clear between ninyo ana nga issue. as for now, i-prioritize usa na imong baby.