Why do men fall in luv with B**ches: From doormats to dreamgirls.....

[chubelita_cutie]

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Statistics shows: 98% Reason of Breaking up is a 3rd party....We refer them as boyfriend/girlfriend snatchers or for girls call them **tch!

But why do men fall in luv with them.....what we call doormats turned out to be the dreamgirls of our boo.....

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[shoeless_rebel]

maybe because they do it better? maybe because they're not boring?

[richard79]

maypagkasakto gamay si shoeless pero usahay pud dapat lang pud ta nga mo graceful exit kung dili na jud mo ganahan sa inyong uyab or partner unya wala namo ganahi nga ipadayon pa. ********* og tarong unya gawas sa hinay2 nga klaro dili lang dritso ambak murag Tarzan nga inig kapyot sa usa buhi sa usa unya kapyot napud sa usa... kana matawag nakog mga irresponsabling mga taw. pero tinarong ang inyong paggawas sa relasyon...PANANGHID OG TARONG!!!

[tsikay101]

maybe because they do it better? maybe because they're not boring?

nice points and shall i add that maybe its because they've got a stronger personality w/c is quite attractive to men and even with the ***chy facade, i have to admit these women have brains to match the attitude too. these points are just negated because of course the grieving party wud not see that amidst the hurt and anger.

dont get me wrong, i still abhor cheating, 3rd party stuff, coz if uve gotta end sumthing, u shud end it right and then move on.

[klavel]

i agree, the other girl (so-called 3rd party) probably has more fun..BUT..to quote richard79, "the other party must have a graceful exit"..don't leave unfinished business with previous lover..after the cheating you have done and the hurt you caused, at least for once in your life be a gentleman!?!?

[flik]

it only shows that your partner is not worthy of your trust if he/she for a 3rd party...

[richard79]

dili jud!!! usahay makaingon ko intawn pasensya sa akong pinulongan pero akong maingon ani nila BOGO!

[tsikay101]

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i know the question is why men get attracted to b-----s but i just want to add:
maybe we shud see this in another angle...

the 3rd party kuno, which u call (b----), basin diay she didn't intend to snatch ur bf at all. mao man ni common misconception gud. na kai abi nagbuwag ang isa ka couple kai naa lain girl, ang mosud dayon sa utok sa tao kai nangilog ning bayhana, way batasan kai gi lure niya ang laki away from his gf, when ang nahitabo jud is that ang guy ang imo bf mismo maoy gnhan na nga mokalas because he fell in love with somebody else and it so happened that this girl naa sad feelings sa lalaki. and bisan buwag na ang couple even before nisugot ang "other" girl na magkauyab sila sa laki, labelan ghapon siya na third party ug b----, bf snatcher and all those horrible names.

this happened to one of my closest friends, she underwent hell because of this. she was being harassed and humiliated by the exgf (ex ha!) kai nangilog daw siya and of course cursed her and used the term b---- on her, when in fact over na ang tanan before niya gsugot ang guy and she never said a word against the exgf, never did she plead for the guy to leave his exgf, she even told the guy that he must do everything he can to fix his relationship, bahalag naa sad cya feelings para sa guy. (karon kinsa man ang b----?)

so why men fall in love with these so called b------s? because maybe they arent b------s after all... :mrgreen:

[flik]

OT
i know the question is why men get attracted to b-----s but i just want to add:
maybe we shud see this in another angle...

the 3rd party kuno, which u call (b----), basin diay she didn't intend to snatch ur bf at all. mao man ni common misconception gud. na kai abi nagbuwag ang isa ka couple kai naa lain girl, ang mosud dayon sa utok sa tao kai nangilog ning bayhana, way batasan kai gi lure niya ang laki away from his gf, when ang nahitabo jud is that ang guy ang imo bf mismo maoy gnhan na nga mokalas because he fell in love with somebody else and it so happened that this girl naa sad feelings sa lalaki. and bisan buwag na ang couple even before nisugot ang "other" girl na magkauyab sila sa laki, labelan ghapon siya na third party ug b----, bf snatcher and all those horrible names.

this happened to one of my closest friends, she underwent hell because of this. she was being harassed and humiliated by the exgf (ex ha!) kai nangilog daw siya and of course cursed her and used the term b---- on her, when in fact over na ang tanan before niya gsugot ang guy and she never said a word against the exgf, never did she plead for the guy to leave his exgf, she even told the guy that he must do everything he can to fix his relationship, bahalag naa sad cya feelings para sa guy. (karon kinsa man ang b----?)

so why men fall in love with these so called b------s? because maybe they arent b------s after all...Â* :mrgreen:

its nothing but normal to hate the person.the ex was only carried away by emotions. i wont say that its the ex's or the new girls fault i would say it the guy's fault.

klaro kaau na nga ngcourt na ang guy b4 they went their separate.dont tell mkapasugot dyun sya sa new girl in just a day.that would a superman thing if he can do that.in that case there are already some agrrements between the him and the new girl before ngsplit cla sa iyang ex....so blame it to the guy...

[tsikay101]

its nothing but normal to hate the person.the ex was only carried away by emotions. i wont say that its the ex's or the new girls fault i would say it the guy's fault.

klaro kaau na nga ngcourt na ang guy b4 they went their separate.dont tell mkapasugot dyun sya sa new girl in just a day.that would a superman thing if he can do that.in that case there are already some agrrements between the him and the new girl before ngsplit cla sa iyang ex....so blame it to the guy...

yes it is normal to hate the person, but that isnt an excuse to behave in such a morbid manner. you can easily say that coz wala man ka or mo ka witness to the things she did. i completely understand her reactions but i wont tolerate it.

but anyways, i posted that not to argue on whether hus mistake it was. but rather to point out that there is a different side to the story of how come some women who are well-mannered tend to be labeled ''b------s'' when they really are not.

nagcourt man ang guy or wala, ang important dha na ang babae wala ni kagat kai she is very much aware na naa pay unfinished business ang guy. and hey, it did not take the guy one day (just to clear things up)