hu will u choose?

[ranmar]

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opinion please... i need some insights from anyone...

im into a relationship...and we love each other so well...prob is...he doesnt like my fam askin financial help from me (he grew up in the states)...and if im gonna do that...my fam will...i dunno...be disappointed...they need my help financially...and badly...

hu will u pick?! fam or him...its makin me crazy...

and im thinkin of givin them both up...sucks?! yeah...

its tiring...but i dont wanna be alone...i love them both...

[P-Chan]

remember blood is thicker than water... maybe pag tanaw niya nga nag pasalig nalang imong family nimo...

[ranmar]

yeap...but love is thicker than blood...yikes noh?!

been tryin to explain to him that my fam needs me...i have to help them...he just wont understand...

hes so wise and clever that sometimes...i think...he's somewhat right...

but i dunno anymore...how shud i handle both of them...like wats the right thing to say? to both of them...right now...im not talkin to my fam...i dunno kno wat to say to them...

help jud please...if any1s in my shoes...wat wud u do?

[P-Chan]

why don't you two go to your family...

[ranmar]

wat do mean p-chan? hey!

thanks really for the ears...hehehe!!!

[P-Chan]

if you're trying to convince him, why don't you two make a suprise visit to your family...

[Jacopo]

If that happens to me, i won't give a damn to dump her knowing she doesn't care about my family...
@ranmar:
how could he say he loves you when he doesn't love your family?

[greatSicnarf]

ur prob s simple.. u rily nid 2 choose 1..not both!
if he rily lovs u, he wil understnd n accept ur family..
remember dat there r a lot of guys but there wud onli b 1 family!

[jeff_bonz59]

^^ i agree...

your family was there long before this guy or any guy ever came in your life... so therefore he should understand where you at right now...

cultural differences always clash especially when you pick someone who doesnt know or understand the filipino's extended family ties.... and this is what's happening to you now...

though sometimes the family (who always keeps asking money from you) is a pain your back always.. it just all a matter of assuring your family sad and making them understand that dili tanan nalng magsalig sila nimo... and you have a life of your own already....

Again, depende ra na sa pagpasabot... and your partner should understand that.. instead of him as a problem.. make him one of the solution to your problem....

Good luck

[LeeLeePot]

2005 pa man ni oi. lol!