Is he my son?

[kuyabog]

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Guys and gals, may I ask your kind inputs about my situation.

My gf was pregnant so I married her. My problem is that she delivered a perfectly healthy baby boy in January, eight months after our contact which supposedly made her preggy. The OB Gyn computed for a Feb delivery.

Is he my son?

As of the moment, I can not afford a DNA/Paternity Test...I am a poor hunter.. a job hunter.

I would also like to trace the identity and whereabouts of my wife's first bf. He has the right to know he fathered a son who is carrying my name.

Anyone who wishes to help me trace him may kindly pm me.

[ed168III]

icheck ang blood type bro if dli imo or sa imo wife, sarry

[reginakrys]

basin premature diay nanganak.. not every baby gets born exactly when they're due.. how many weeks AOG pagdeliver?

you're not even sure yet if that child is your son or not, yet you're already planning on telling her ex nga iyaha na?

[trollaccount]

Reading your situation and seeing your avatar reminded me about the Cuckoo bird------laying eggs in the nests of other birds.

A paternity tests is the only way for you to really find out. Out of legal considerations, did you marry her knowing that there was a possibility the baby she was carrying could not be yours? If it is proven the baby is not yours will you continue to stay in the marriage? Of course you don't have to answer.

[FukenGruven]

paternity tests can be costly.. true! but try blood typing as ed168III suggested. the process may not be able to pin point exactly on who's who but they call it the exclusion process to know if you can be the biological father or not.

[SunYang]

Imu na unta to gi-ihap daan bro.. kesa karun naka magduda nga kasado namu.. saonz..

unya bro,sure jud ka nga sa iya ng ex? ako pa nimu sa imu wife na lang na nimu ipangutana.. heart to heart talk ba.. ana kesa mag-una2 ka nya diay to sayop.. klaroha usa na..

basin lang pud diay premature. Kanus-a jud diay siya exactly nanganak basin pud days na lang mag feb na, naa raba usahay mag-una2g gawas ang bata, pareha sa ako manghud bisag di pa time nahan na jud mugawas..hehehehe

[icon_king]

lesora ani tsk tsk budget ka 100k for DNA. nya ug makahibalo ka sa result dili emu. samot ka magsakit. ako pa nimu buhi-a nalang na as your own son.Angel bya na gihatag. naay uban maglesod ug buhat bata. enjoy the moment nalang of being a father. dili man kaha chocolate ang imung anak? para dili kaayo obvious dili imuha?

[LeeLeePot]

murag ingana pud situation sakong bf-turned-ex...nagbuwag mi kai confused xa...hehehe..

he wasn't aware jud nga nakabuntis xa five years ago..ang loophole lan kai nganong waa nag-effort ang mama nga pangitaon xa for the last five years..hehehe...

what i could advise is panindiga nlan na kai naa naman..whether it's yours or not, does it matter? love man kaha nimo imong wife?

and about the blood test, pde jud kaha na? hehehe...

[nealotol]

pwede ra dili ipa blood type bro, pitik ng damdamin lang ok nana.

[yvonne6]

hay, ka faet aning sitwasyona. ani na lang bro, love ba nimo imong wife? naka feel baka sa excitement nga dad naka sa mabdos pa imong asawa? how did u feel pagkakita sa baby? super happy baka nga dad naka? kung YES ang tubag aning tanan, dawata na lang ug luag sa imong kasing2 nga imo ng anak, besides, walay sala ang bata bisan asa tanawon ug dili man gani nimo siya anak. mura ra gud ug nag minyo ka ug nanay anak daan, dili nana mo matter, ang mo matter kay ang imong feeling sa mga taw around you. mas maayo na kay gikan pagka baby, ikaw namay gi ila nga amahan, kung imo na lang ng walaon ang doubt sa imong mind, mas maka live paka peacefully. although i understand u have the right to know and to be sure, pero wala pa man kaha kay ika afford ug paternity test? blood test is not 100%, basig mo samot lang kadaku imong problema ani