yes..i have a problem with a girl...i want to know who she really was!..will she told me about her life,..but i feel she's not telling me everything, the sad thing is she keep something that i feel very important to me...it's been almost a year now i keep on asking her but she really keep it for good...anyway dili na lang nako sulti unsa ang nahitabo, basta ako lang ang topic or issue is : ana ba gyud ang babae keep gyud secret until to her death..labi na ang secret is about her past...how to make her confident to trust me and tell her secret...
pls. give your info specially girls diri thanks...






TS, I suggest that you not force the issue. There are indeed some things that are better left unsaid. Some of us girls do keep some things to ourselves. If amo i-share, di na secret, hehehe. We find it hurtful to bring up the past. Why resurrect bad memories? Even if a girl trusts you, that's no guarantee she will spill 100 percent of her life story to you. The least you can do is respect her privacy.
alright, here's my take on this. by nature, mas open jud na ang girls compared to guys. mas naa mi need for social interaction and verbal expression, we feel good everytime we are able to share something personal to our friends. but that's not always the case man gud. naa man jud boundary line. bisag unsa pa ka-open ang babaye regarding her personal life, she's still bound to keep a secret or two. to get this secret out of her, you have to make yourself really trustworthy. how to gain her trust? well good luck na lang jud bro, coz if ako lang, it will take you years jud. LITERALLY. 