What IF?

[emjee17]

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close.,,,,,,,,,,,,,

[treize]

just wait and dont assume too much..

intuitions could also get wrong... so dont rely to much with intuition..

[Peenut]

It's been a long year since you two were friends.

What is felt is always raw and undeniable.

As what you've said, he is with you through thick and thin. In fact maybe he also have the same feelings.

But yeah, don't assume too much.
He is older and he might treat you as a sister.

[Su-Hae]

I agree with treize and peenut!.. hehe

[pablingz]

SO, here's the thing:

We've known each other for 3 years and are really close. We shared experiences may it be family matters, work related, studies or relationships. He's 6 years older than me and he is really a very good friend of mine. I should say he is the only person who stays with me through thick and thin - tested and proven.

I always feel special when we are together though we only go out to chat/catch-up for like 2-3 times a year kay he is busy with his career and so am I with my studies; though we keep the commu intact.

Problem is: I have this kind of feeling for him but I still don't know as to what it really is. Is this IT? IS this what? WHAT is this?

I just broke up with my bf of 14months, 5 months ago. I don't want to be in a rush when it comes to involving relationships since I am not yet ready to commit and I don't want to jeopardize our friendship.

I can sense that he also has the same feelings but I don't know - I mean I don't want to assume but girls have this intuition, that is more or less like a feelings detector.

Can you help me with this?

well, para dili naka mag assume maybe the best thing to do is be frank.but before you do this make sure sa sa imu feelings ui, basin ra diay ug "mistaken identity" ra na nimu na love pero dili diay. heheheh... pero bitaw TS, make sure sa jud sa imu feelings for him lisud na raba if makasulti naka then dili diay to mao kay mausab na ang dagan sa imu friendship. so take time, think about it lang sa.

[gtx1]

Don't be frank, and don't even think about confessing your feelings to him, ok ra unta kung naa ta sa Japan or Korea, kay normal ra na sa ilaha. Relax lang. Don't think of it or dwell on it too much. If you can't control the feeling, try to find some ways to get it off your chest, or to make it manageable. Sports or any creative or mind engaging activity could help. On my part it does. The most important thing is he is there, you enjoy his company, and he does not take advantage of you. Just go with the flow. Let him initiate things. If he is interested to move the relationship between the both of you to the next level then he will "do the moves" . The bottomline is, if mutual ang feelings then things will sort out by themselves.

[KASAAC]

sakto sila don't assume hehehe unless manguyab siya nmu...

[yvonne6]

agree ko sa pag hulat ang never divulge ur feelings for him. kani rabang feeling usahay kay masayup. maau na nga ni court siya nimo because thats how he feels dili nga nagkarelasyon mo kay iyang gi take advantage ang imong pag sulti sa imong na feel towards niya. at least u can always claim nga gipanguyaban gyud ka niya, not the other way around.

[jntio]

yah don't assume too much. wait nalng mo court cya nmo oi

[Veng3ancE]

mao sad.... but try lang sa ug ask if what he thinks of you......
basin you will end up regretting it for the rest of your life if you don't open up just a little.

kinda same thing happened to me before.... we both concluded that if we had done something, it would have been nice we being together.... probably we are, in other reality/dimension