consistency in love

[thisbe.ara]

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i've talked with a lot of people about this. and oftentimes ang reklamo kay "maayo lang na cya sauna, karon nga uyab na mi, gawas na tinuod nga batasan"

change is inevitable.. moingon sila naa ra dyud mausab. pero how can one be consistent in showing how much you love despite and inspite of these changes?
or is caring during courtship ra ba dyud?this goes out for gurls also. mao na gipanguyaban ta kay naay nakita nga maayo ang guy nato. pero naa pud baya inconsistencies usahay. so, how to maintain consistency?

OT: i can't seem to find any similar topic. mods, if you have seen one, then do delete this. ok ra.

OT pa jud: m not having this prob now ha! general wondering lang ni.. hehehe

[franz]

i dont know but maybe you can post this to this thread, http://forums.istorya.net/viewtopic.php?t=1114

[zyLe]

THATS THE WAY LIFE IS...SOMETIMES UP AT TIMES DOWN...

[badoy]

to be consistent mura lisod jud kong dili ka ma kontinto sa imo life karon cguro ma consistent ka if ever you dream..you love in a simple way kay unsa paman imo pangitaon kong simple ra kay imo ganahan.

as long nga ur in a ryt path then go ON..

[anniepetilla]

i've talked with a lot of people about this. and oftentimes ang reklamo kay "maayo lang na cya sauna, karon nga uyab na mi, gawas na tinuod nga batasan"

change is inevitable.. moingon sila naa ra dyud mausab. pero how can one be consistent in showing how much you love despite and inspite of these changes?
or is caring during courtship ra ba dyud?this goes out for gurls also. mao na gipanguyaban ta kay naay nakita nga maayo ang guy nato. pero naa pud baya inconsistencies usahay. so, how to maintain consistency?

good thing u added that disclaimer at the end disbe, kai ask unta ko if this is a personal testimonial.
consistency. change. love. murag correlated man ani nga three noh. in a relationship, it is supposed to be healthy when the two of you grow--growth syempre entails change.
basin ang isa nabyaan sa isa. and feels alienated from the relationship. nga murag wala naman good thing coming out of it. thats why the perception is--nigawas na gyud ang "true colors".
basin kulang ra gyud sa communication. cliche na noh. bitaw, i just think that if two people value each other enough to want to be together...then they should work at understanding each other, they should be there for each other. (pulos na gyud each other)
on the other hand, naa pud sugad ani nga situation...when one party feels as if he'she had loved a stranger all along. maybe the relationship was founded on all the wrong reasons. basin infatuation ra, mistaken for love. kumbaga--you atarted on the right foot but walked on the wrong path. ana lang...
then love dies a \nother natural death.

[potterboy]

guess it happens most of the time. been there done that. but not this time.

[roselyn]

[[size=18px]there's no permanent thing in this world except change[/size]

[starlightexpress21]

change?hahahahaahhahaha

[thisbe.ara]

@starlight express21: you are not at all, responding to this thread as it is.

@anniepetilla: yep, i had to put that disclaimer else i will be swarming with PMs hehhee.. as for me, i guess change does happen.. as roselyn said, there's no permanent thing in this world except change. lisud oi when gina-spoil ang isa ug maayo during courtship nya kalit lang ug kawagtang. however, i believe that if mao jud ta iyang personality pag first, maski pa grabe ang level atong time nga nanguyab cya (kay best foot forward lagi), his true personality will always, always shine through. it might not be the same degree. but still mogawas jud na.
in this case, would you all agree nga it pays to know the person better (thru time and challenges) before really going into commitments?

[anniepetilla]

hey disbe.
siyempre you should go through a phase of getting to know each other.
that's what dating is for, diba.
when you found it solely on instant attraction, you'll be shortchanging ypurself. rare ra gyud if ever, anang whirlwind romance mo-work out. it usually burns up the two people.