unexpressive bf

[jojoh]

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hey guys newbie here...
just wanna ask you paano kaya maovercome ang mga insecurities sa rel.? kasi i used to get jealous easily...sahay wala na sa lugar....napakababaw pero d ko gusto ma daot amo rel.dahil sa katangahan ko...
and isa pa hindi siya expressive...
ano gagawin ko ?

[rheo08]

u answered ur question.. u know the problems and u've posted it.. how u can manage it? is to focus on the negative things that makes u insecures and turn it around, dont be insecure, u we're courted bec. there was something in you that made him/her love u simple as dat, yes there would be someone better than u but again, its you that was choosen so given the benefit, dont be to insecure bec. people are really have its advantages.. how can u make him expressive? talk to him about it..^_^

[james_chaw]

well, gauge the situation on when to talk to him about these matters. perhaps it's also sensitive to him. but bottom line lang gyud sis, do not expect the person to change entirely gyud. why? because you have to accept the person for who he is gyud, albeit with a little polishing makaya pa.

[bellah]

why just dont u sit and talk things out..but make sure u will listen to each other before u react in every situation, maybe he preffer to be silent and not being showy coz of ur actions being jelous with no reasons at all. U need to trust your bf and he needs to be open to u as well.

[epoaxlan]

just trust your BF ts, don't make any issues out of small things..

[my_hEaD_isBIG]

TRUST ang importante bro, 2nd lang ang LOVE sa imong bf...

[Twinkz]

Maglisod og show ang lalaki sa ila love sa imo labi na kong ikaw na mismo gaingon na usahay wala naka sa lugar magselos. If you want him to be expressive ipafeel sa lalaki na at home siya sa imo , that you can be a friend nga macomfortable siya sa imo and ipafeel niya na nisalig ka niya.

[bettycooper]

haaai, same with mine.. 3 years nlang mi pero dili jud kaau xa expressive, dili showy or maski in words di jud kaau..

sa amo 3yrs ako ra cge selos, never in our 3yrs jud na xa nag.selos.. nuon wla sad nako xa g.taga.an rason mag.selos.. pero nindot bya na sometimes, mag.selos pud unta bah.. hehe.. haaai..

[jojoh]

For those who have helped, thank you talaga....

[Moongoddess28]

You know what I think, insecurity comes from within--if you lack self-awareness..then m-insecure jd ka.
He'll never find what's good in you if di ka mg.pa-kitag confidence.
Self-worth...self-respect. Its starts from you. Not niya.


Akong bf ky hilumon au. super mi ka-opposite. lol.
I love it like that.
He's him.