What if pangayuan ra kag BABY?

[angel_brey]

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Hi Istoryans!

It just popped out of my head today and I was wondering...

If you are a GUY...

What if ingnun ka sa GIRL na mgpa SPERM DONOR lang sya nimo? No strings attached, no obligation or anything, she just wants YOUR BABY/OFFSPRING for some reason whether NATURALLY (as in mag s3x jud mo) or Artificial Insemination (Although I am not quite sure if offered na ba ni diri karun sa ato).

If you are a GIRL...

What if ingnun ka sa GUY na pabuntisan lang ka niya and he just wants the KID? Same thing, No strings attached, no obligation or anything, she just wants YOUR BABY/OFFSPRING for some reason whether NATURALLY (as in mag s3x jud mo) or Artificial Insemination (Although I am not quite sure if offered na ba ni diri karun sa ato).

OR what if someone would come up to you and ask YOU to be a SURROGATE MOTHER of a Husband & Wife's offspring?

(Uso naman ni karun na naay mga mothers especially those who are not fit to bear a child anymore, that they ask for help from those who can still bear a child! They pay the surrogate mother for her service during the pregnancy and delivery is included in the package! They have made this a booming industry in INDIA earning a lot just by doing this! An example is Sara Jessica Parker. All her kids didn't come out from her vajayjay or dili siya ang nibuntis and ni panganak nila!)

http://www.marieclaire.com/world-rep...-mothers-india

So what's it gonna be? Let me boggle your minds for a second...

Would you? Or would you NOT?

PS
A colleague of mine, after seeing my daughter Annya,
asked me one time to be a SURROGATE or to give her
a CHILD she could call her own!

MY TAKE:

To be a SURROGATE MOTHER, okay ra nako! Anyway, it is just to carry the kid for 9 months then give it up to them! PLUS, you get to be paid pa for doing it for them! But things are only easier said than done! Since I am a very emotional person, I am not quite sure if I will be able to give the baby up knowing that it has been mine for 9 months to carry. So I am kinda in the middle here now!

To be asked by a GUY for an offspring, well definitely dili ko sugot especially knowing that part of that kid is MINE or is ME! Murag lahi ra, lisod ra! ehheh

[nortz]

okey ra basta bayran ko sa gurl sa akong kahago.. hehehe!

[Scott Bernard]

Okay ra... pang hugas usa daan ha...

[reginakrys]

pass lang cguro ko.. i don't think mahatag nako ang bata nga nagdako sakong tummy for 9 months..

[dearlabe]

Ok ra, pero ako inggnon ang guy nga quadruplets bya among kaliwat that means kuhaon nya tanang babies and that all are on COD- Cash on Delivery. Hahhaha.

[angel_brey]

okey ra basta bayran ko sa gurl sa akong kahago.. hehehe!

Ang bayad ra nimo is dili ka paakuhon sa responsibility! Hello? As if sad dili ka malingaw ug buhat ha na you GUYS think about S3x many times a day ra ba! ehhehe Kana pa ba mkatilaw ka for free and no obligations asked! hehe

Okay ra... pang hugas usa daan ha...

Uhm, murag if a GIRL would ask a GUY ug ingun ani na no obligations and no responsibilities asked, murag kwartahan sad ni uy ug dili mga pokpok dinha sa tabi-tabi na walay mga hugas! Pag sure dinha SB!

pass lang cguro ko.. i don't think mahatag nako ang bata nga nagdako sakong tummy for 9 months..

Yeah, lisod! Sayun ra esulti pero lisod buhatun! That is why I so wonder how the INDIAN surrogates feel after and how do they get through it? I guess with POVERTY, as long as it is something that could get you money, you would grab the opportunity as much as you can!

I saw from DISCOVERY CHANNEL I think or NatGeo ba to na for every surrogate mother in India, their payment for being such could already get them to provide or buy their own house for their family! For those people in the lower caste class of India, they would really grab the opportunity just to get their family off the streets of India!

The Untouchables - (Lowest class of the caste system) Pariahs or Antyajas, were at the bottom of the social scale and even now perform the jobs nobody else wants such as disposal of corpses, night soil handling or execution of criminals; They lived in their own ghettos at the peripheries of the towns and villages and were not allowed to even hear the vedas.

[angel_brey]

Ok ra, pero ako inggnon ang guy nga quadruplets bya among kaliwat that means kuhaon nya tanang babies and that all are on COD- Cash on Delivery. Hahhaha.

Hahhaha Cool! Kuyawa ana kung mu demand siya na buntisun kag katulo para 1 basketball team iyang mga anak na makuha from you! hehehe

But back on topic, naa man sad gyud na silay e sabot! I think like for example, dapat ALL LALAKE or dapat lalake jud ang mugawas! What if beh? Hahahha Unsaun nalang!

[nitwit]

hmmm, before we have our first baby ( a miracle baby) my husband had very low sperm count and that he wont be able to have a child, i was very devastated because ive always wanted a child.we both were! years and years of trying we even considered the idea of either getting a surrogate mother or ill pay someone to be a donor to get me pregnant and by the time we were about to give up we found out that im pregnant

so my answer to this question is A BIG NO NO!!!! ill never give away my child to anyone,i dont care how much they'll pay me, i definately dont agree that a child got a price thats just plain stupid!

to whoever who would sell their babies are just nothing but a selfish c*nts! sorry for the language but i just dont like the idea of women selling their babies,its just an absolute ludicrous!

[angel_brey]

hmmm, before we have our first baby ( a miracle baby) my husband had very low sperm count and that he wont be able to have a child, i was very devastated because ive always wanted a child.we both were! years and years of trying we even considered the idea of either getting a surrogate mother or ill pay someone to be a donor to get me pregnant and by the time we were about to give up we found out that im pregnant

so my answer to this question is A BIG NO NO!!!! ill never give away my child to anyone,i dont care how much they'll pay me, i definately dont agree that a child got a price thats just plain stupid!

to whoever who would sell their babies are just nothing but a selfish c*nts!

Pero what if DILI imuha nits? Like the surrogate mothers in INDIA? The sperm and egg are somebody else's and not yours! All you have to do is CARRY the baby in your body for 9months then after you deliver it, they pay you?

I mean, could you really still consider the kid YOURS when not even a part of it is really yours? The egg and sperm to make the baby is not yours. Simply put, it is as if you are just an OVEN used by the parents to bake their cake or their baby for that matter? Could you? mind boggling really!

[nitwit]

Pero what if DILI imuha nits? Like the surrogate mothers in INDIA? The sperm and egg are somebody else's and not yours! All you have to do is CARRY the baby in your body for 9months then after you deliver it, they pay you?

I mean, could you really still consider the kid YOURS when not even a part of it is really yours? The egg and sperm to make the baby is not yours. Simply put, it is as if you are just an OVEN used by the parents to bake their cake or their baby for that matter? Could you? mind boggling really!

honestly i think the baby is still somehow a part of you despite that the egg and sperm arent yours or your partner's! imagine carrying it for 9-10 months and feeling his/her heartbeat everytime you go for your monthly pregnancy check up? how about everytime you feel them move inside you? and their first cry to greet the world? isnt it amazing? i dunno, i just dont think that i can do it.