for guys:career-oriented or simple/plain housewife?

[bitokon_nga_bitok]

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please post your views here...just wanna know which is preferrable......

[monrose29]

career oriented

i will take care then of kids, i can cook, i can do the laundry, and most specially i can take care of our maid if ever kong na-a.. hahahaha ka bad oi.. joke lang bitaw...

[journeyman]

For a middle earner like me, i cant ask my wife to quit her job. Raising a family nowadays is far more different than 20 years ago.

[Velvett]

haaaay salamat di na jud traditional ang mga guys karon. it's a new era. thank god.

[kiwiboy]

for me lang ha, career and family oriented jud....

[bitokon_nga_bitok]

For a middle earner like me, i cant ask my wife to quit her job. Raising a family nowadays is far more different than 20 years ago.

yes its true..however, if u are a high-earner, would you ask your wife to quit her job and take care of the kids even if it means putting an end to ur wife's career?

[Velvett]

^ if ever man gani you are a high-earner and you want your wife to stay home to be with the kids, sweldohe lang inyung wife para maka save siya. this way IF magkabulag mo, di siya kawawa.

[leo_trams]

if high-earner ko: (i'll hire 2 or 3 helpers-yaya,maid,driver)
- if pag-sugod pa lang namo, high-earner na ko daan unya siya wala trabaho, then she should be a plain housewife.
- if pag-sugod pa lang namo, high-earner na ko unya siya high-earner pud...ahhh, her happiness mattes most.
- if job of wife is kaya(happy siya), pero high-paying...depende na niya kung mo-resign siya. Kadaghan ra ba basta career-oriented ma bored sa being a housewife.
- if job of wife is kaya(happy siya), pero low-pay...ahh, resign gyud siya.
- if job of wife is lisod(not happy siya), pero high-paying...ahh, resign gyud siya.

if low-earner ko: (tsk tsk tsk, double-time gyud!, apilan tanan possible nga maka-augment sa income!)
- wife should be in a job nga happy siya...pay does not matter. But, we should be on the alert for any opportunities.

Depende ra gyud gihapon sa situation...the number of kids, distance from haus to workplace, demands of work,etc..
Basta tan-awon lang gyud ang impact(over-all happiness) sa Family.

[Wadexx]

simple/plain housewife. no further explanations..

[timmyduncan]

it depends on our pride man siguro ni sa mga guys... ako, kung unsa mas maau para sa amo family and ckung asa comfortable ako wife... support ko!