Should i give up? (Need a girls perspective)

[the_samwitch]

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Should I give up?

So theres this one girl who i met a year ago. She is the most beautiful girl i have ever seen. Didnt even had the guts to talk to her at that time because...well im a wimp..hehehe We have a mutual friend and that friend knows i like her but she told me naay bf ang girl bag.o ra so basically i stopped my plans to advance..if i would ever have the courage to advance in the first place

dayun about 5 months ago our mutual friend informed me they just broke up. So i took that as my que and started to text her and chat with her sa facebook. Ill be honest i was attracted because of her physical attributes but once i got to know her more, i fell for who she was inside. i started visiting her at home and tried to console her for recent break up.

Well to cut it short it came to a time that i ask her out. She was hesitant to come with me at first without our friends but finally got her to trust me. So we went out a couple of times and i told her how i feel and i know what shes going trough right now, that shes not ready to entertain. She told me na shes happy i understand her situation and she enjoy my company.

Well it went for a month. i kept visiting her and going out with her friends. Dayun suddenly she texted me na asking me to stop, because she doesnt want to hurt me, cause she can only see me as a friend and nothing more.

Should i stop now? i mean i have been holding back because i was trying to be a friend rather than someone who is courting her. i feel like i lose the game before trying to play. I mean if i go down i would rather have it while im punching back. What do you think guyz? i need a girls perspective on this please.

[Dorothea]

If a girl says No, it means no. If she says stop, you stop.

[muchacha00]

unsa pa may angay e tubag ana... nga gi tubag naman na sa imong gi panguyaban...

[THE KID]

kaibog ranang imo bai.........atong ibutang nga itom kaau ng bayhana nya dakog tiyan....imagina og ganahan paba ka...

[leanne]

then you should stop TS..klaro man kaha niya pag.ingon so meaning ana dli jud xa..

[the_samwitch]

thats my point..i wasnt really in a courting mode...i mean i have been basted more than alot of times na before so im use to it...this time lang i feel like i was defeated before i started

[the_samwitch]

i know this is wishful thinking but what if shes testing me lang? wouldnt she think binuang ra ni ako if i give up just because she said so?

[Dorothea]

^Sakit kaayo unrequited love, TS. We've all gone through that. I don't think she's just "testing" you. I think she really means it, she thinks of you as a friend, nothing more.

Familiar ka anang kanta ni Bonnie Raitt, I Can't Make You Love Me?

[domzgnrlover86]

stop nalang jud TS if di najud sia nahan....accept the fact nga friends nalang jud mo...

[Nobody's_Girl]

She's not into you!