I had this conversation with one of my close girl friend and I asked her how girls define friend-zone and I just want to share this. I'm not saying that you will agree on my post. I'm just giving a summary on what she explained to me.
Let me try writing this in mixed english and bisaya as it would be better na convey iya gipang sulti in our own dialect.
From a woman's perspective, they love friendzone. Ang friendzone is like a BFF guy na you both have the same feeling, na if wala siya (one of you) kay di jud complete imung adlaw. Bestfriend to the highest level with no malice. To the point na feel nimo na imung love para niya kay pang girl-boy relationship nah... but the prob is one of you might not feel the same way. And girls actually want to end that way than hurting each other. Kay in such a way, more or less mas sakit if makita nimo na nasakitan imung friendzone friend. That's the consequence. Taman ra jud mo diha. It's either take it or leave it. Huna hunaa lang jud og tarong if friendzone bana imung kahimtang run or not.
If it is purely panguyab and this girl is not ready to commit gyud or friendzone jud. Karon pa lang daan, better take a step backwards nah or you'll hurt yourself in the future for sure.
It's either take it or leave it. If sakit ra and kaya nimo nga mawala siya then leave before breaking your leg. But if dili ra kaau sakit and di jud nimo kaya na mawala siya, like makaya ra nimo ang inyung kahimtang and you are contented na ana ra... never leave the girl hanging, kay of all.. ikaw nah iyang close, bff-friendzone nga diba? so that means she trusts you so much and murag ikaw iya masandigan and all and happy siya if naa ka.
Just accept the fact na if di jud pwede then di jud and just accept kung unsa naa ninyo run and be happy about it. And if the time comes na maka kita nag guy tong imung ka friendzone, trust me, di kah ato niya malimtan. Iya attention of course naa sa iya uyab but never ka malimtan sa imung ka friendzone.
Be happy for her na lang and if the time comes na tears will fall down sa iya mata... at least you are there... dapat at least ma happy ka kay somehow you are a hero in someone's life.
Motto nako man gud, what are friends for permi. Sacrifices, love... at least naa. At least you have some. At least you have each other. Even it if not what others call a "boy-girl relationship". At least you have someone.
Kay ang pinaka unfortunate na taw in this world might be someone who has no one. So treasure every single thing you have. Be happy and if time comes na life will be unfair, still thank God for having that everything comes and go the constant change "rule" of life.
Feel free to post your comments, suggestions, violent reactions.
Friendzone from a woman's perspective
" Karon pa lang daan, better take a step backwards nah or you'll hurt yourself in the future for sure."
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