i've posted this under an old thread kai pare-pareha raman situation. but im not getting much advice or views. so i hope MODS will consider me posting this new thread. kindly move nalang if necessary
I like this girl from the start. nag practicum sila sa amo office for about 2 months or so, and i was the one handling them. sort of "SIR" so to speak. so i like her and I ddnt do anything about it before(tired of loving so to speak because of past experiences). during thier late weeks, something i dont remember what happened make us to talk more than just office stuffs. from then on we share giggles, laughs jokes whenever magkita mi sa office. murag d mi mahutdan joking each other so to speak. at one time iya a dungan na practicumer mu joke pud about namo duha.
long story short, i wanted to see if kutob ra ba to didto since ila practicum has ended with us. so i continue to text her and mu reply raman pud sya. but she sometimes just STOPS in the middle sa conversation tapos sa sunod namo txt d man lang sya musulti why ni stop sya kalit, although there are times na when i text late sa evening, she would reply jud in the morning.
so its time to ask her out. lisod jud sya ikuyog alone(actually was never with her alone jud,usually with her circle of friends). kung makigsabot ko nya na mulakaw mi or magkita. she would immediately respond in positive way. but when i ask kanus-a, muingon ra syag "mu txt lang ko". that line alone nag interpret na ko na d sya nahan nako the way i thought. but i try to play along lang,continued texting her and asking when mi pwede magkita ang would get that same answer. d jud sya muhatag kanusa. sometimes also she would txt me na magkuyog daw mi here and there but inig ask nko when mao gihapon tubaga. can i say she was just bored?
then another invite initiated by her. mag carnival daw mi kana atbang sa parkmall. i got the info i need para didto and nagsamot jud mi finally to go there 2 days after. wala na ko nakigconversation nya after until the night before the said date. when she ask daun ba daw mi. ingon ko yes, and here is where ko na lose interested gamay coz she said "who else is going?"-i mean its a SIGN dba? so ako giingnan na kami ra duha and she said ka BORING(of course with matching smileys etc ni iya mga replies ha). pagka morning because i wanted to at least see her, nisugot nalang ko na magdala sya friend, and i would also dala a friend of mine. nisugot sya and the 4 of us went to go to the park that evening.
at the park laktod na pagka storya, wa jud ko ganahi coz of the sign she has shown me. na murag wa jud sya interest sako ba. and my showing now is a respect nalang coz nisaad ko nya to do this.i never really made a good conversation with her even on the way there. in other words medyo badtrip jud ko kai bisan nalang unta before nisulti sya d sya nahan nako(i assume this was really the case) and not show any mixed emotions. so 4 of us went on some rides, eat and talk a bit. then pagkataud taud iya friend(which was a gurl)asked me to ride Pirates of the Carribean, the only ride wala pa namo gisakyan coz mahadlok sya bsin kasukaon. ako sya giinvite na kuyog mi para lingaw daghan dili jud sya. so I ended up riding with her friend sa Pirates of the Carribean. she was left with my friend(which was a guy and who knows i was interested with her). in the ride i tried to look for her just to see how she looks seeing me with her friend(which by the way was holding my hands when the ride was starting.) i wasnt able to see where she was. ni stop kadyot ang ride coz naa isa ka bata nihilak HAHA and want to go down. pag stop. she and my friend went up to get on the ride. ako friend nag una to the other side sa ride and unexpectedly ako crush nitupad nako, w/o saying a word, looked like naa gikasuk-an(i assume na nasuya sya with the ride or something lang). i asked her na tuparan ako friend but wala jud sya mu react. so the ride started. and as soon na naa na sa peak ang drop sa ride, nidikit syag maayo nako, her head a little down dikit sa ako arms. if na lovers lane pa ni iya head was like leaning to my shoulder but in this case leaning down until niabot sya under my arms while nisikit sya maayo sa akoa. at that moment i really wanted to put my arms around her but i resist it bsin malain ug sabot ETC. in that moment, was the only time maka ingon ko na she does like me in some way but her reaction might also be because of the ride and im just reading to much about it. ok our trip ended 2 hrs after that ride moment.
the next day ako gi ask ako friend kung asa sila dapita katu naa mi sa ride kay wala man ko kita nila sa ubos. he said naa ra man daw sila didto. and my crush was looking at me and her friend sa ride. i asked him so what do u think? ingon sya when the ride was going on daw, nagsige ra daw sya tan-aw namo sa iya friend sa ride. ignon ko basin nasuya lang kai mahadlok musakay. ignon ako friend na uu ga sige syag tan-aw but its more than just SUYA daw the way she looked daw. so samot na ko naglibog if nakabantay ako friend sa reaction sa ako "crush" before pa sya ni ride, samot na kaha if nakakita sya when naa mi sa ride.
so ila klase has started. and were back again with txting and again i was always the one to initiate a conversation mapa Facebook, or text it has always been me to start although she does reply when she has a chance. and when i ask her out even for just snacks she would emmidiately say yes, but dont say when. i have started a no contact thing to see if she does make a conversation first coz all we know, d man maayo if only one would always start a conversation dba? its been 5 days and the only thing she sent me was a POKE reply in facebook i left before i started the no contact. and she hasnt replied to any of my posts either(she used to comment on everything before, tagging me).
so, ang ako lang ask sa readers here sa istorya is what you see with the whole conversation so far. of course some bits and pieces are not stated above and only major things happening lang. i like this girl but i just want to see a YES or NO with regards to what she is showing. i dont wana see mixed emotions kai kapoi man duwa duwa haha. on the ride, she can always bend over to her knees is she wants to but naa ba meaning if she was leaning more to me? thanks so much for any replies u can give. positive or negative.
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just to add. all 4 of us na nikuyog that day knows each other. tnx po
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po-po : "she sees me as a friend"
need girls advice or perspective(guys welcome din)
Originally Posted by ondoy
NO...on positive side,e dala lng ug lingaw2 bro bsin diay kadugayn madala ra
remember, her heart is near her stomach 
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