Juz wnna share an article I got from CosmO....^_^
Saying “I love you” always makes for a
tender moment. But “I love you”
doesn’t have to be “said” with words.
While this phrase is a powerful
conveyor of emotion, showing your love
in other ways is just as significant,
and possibly even more effective, at
keeping a relationship alive and
healthy. There are simple ways to show
how much you love someone without
uttering those three little words.
Plus: Are you a good kisser?
1. Show Your Approval, Gratitude and
Admiration
As human beings, we are programmed to
seek reassurance from those we love
and even sometimes from those we don’t.
So it makes sense that you’d do your
best to make sure your partner knows
just how much you approve of and
admire him. Letting your guy know how
you feel takes no time at all. And
even if you think he already knows how
you feel about him, constant reminders
are still extremely motivating.
2 . Make Him #1
Commitment is the foundation in which
any relationship – especially
marria ge – lies on.
While your relationship should take
priority in your life, there’s no
denying that you have a long list of
other commitments you need to tend to.
Your career, children, friends,
extended family, and social life often
compete for time you could be spending
with your partner. Your commitment to
your man can easily waver as you give
importance to all the other things you
have going on. And it’s especially
diffic ult once children are in the
picture. Parents, especially mothers,
tend to think their children are their
biggest obligation, and the other
spouse gets pushed aside.
3. It’s the Small Stuff that Really
Counts
Being thoughtful and taking the
initiative to bring happiness to your
partner is another simple way to
say “I love you.”
Kindness and consideration, especially
when it’s personal and intimate to who
you are as a couple, shows you care so
much that you’re willing to go above
and beyond. It’s about responding to
your partner’s needs and wants, before
he has to ask for it.
Learn to be a good listener, even he’s
talking about something you really
don’t care about. And keep unsolicited
advice to yourself.
4. Be Your Honey’s Everything
Whether you’re a girlfriend or a wife,
your true status takes on so much more
meaning than your title does. You’re a
friend, a lover and a confidante.
Being your partner’s everything takes
work, but it’s an endeavor that
says “I love you” more than words ever
can.