Gugma or Kalu-uy nlng , kung kalu-oy nlng share mo sa inyu life?
Gugma or Kalu-uy nlng , kung kalu-oy nlng share mo sa inyu life?
If kalu-oy nlang maau pa wala kay it's not fair sa imo ug sa other person.
dont forget ang pinaka dakong haligi sa relationship is love, if wala nay love then unhealthy ang relationship especially if
inyo relationship on and off daghan issues nga deli ma resolved, and mag cge lang mo og balik sa past nga mahisgutan gihapon ang situation ngano ni balik pa ka nga wa naman diay ka love kalo-oy naman lang diay imoha..inconsistent naka being a partner coz deli na kinasing-kasing ang imoha to be with that person, when we all know if gikan gyud sa heart and limpyo imong mind to do things then deli ka maka feel og guilty kay you do it with passion man..
where if ni continue ka coz nalo-oy ka then how long you can handle that feelings or something like the pakitang tao or plastic feelings to your partner... does it make her/him happy if she/he knows na kalo-oy nalang imong na feel deli na love...
then deli mag dugay mag buwag ra gihapon...and worse is mas mo daku pa inyong away which is love turned to hatred na ang situation...so better clear your mind if unsa imo gusto ayaw pugsa if wala na gyud kay love to her/him as your partner, yes love as friend then diha nalang kutob, you should also consider the time and situation if its not the right time and the situation is bad then give it a break if kamo gyud kamo gyud magka dayon.....love will find a way and love is the answer...gikan na sa kanta...
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if wala nakay love, and purely kaluoy nalang jud, then let go.... you're not only hurting yourself but your partner as well...
I would rather not keep someone hoping for something that that in the end would do nothing but more pain...
first, it is painful for the person you are like giving hope to.
second, it would be unfair for both of you, you cause you would be bounded to something you do not really want and him/her because she would be holding on to what is not really his/her from the very beginning.
and third "a relationship with pretensions is tragic"
pareho ra mo ana nga dili malipayon...
kana rabang kalooy ga uban na sa gugma.
if kaluoy nlng maypa istoryahan ninyo ug tarung speak from the heart kay kamo raman pud duha mag suffer ug mag kuyog m nga one sided nlng ang love. unfair sa imo partner and unfair pud sa imo kay dili nmn ka happy
kung kalooy ug naa pay gamayng gugma...
pangupti lng sa...ayaw usiki ang panahon...
palambo-a balik nga patas tanan...
If kaluoy, then leave...
I had once loved a person nga sobra-sobra, then i came to a point where i realized i pity him nlng and not love... so i settled everything and left... why stay? when you don't love the person anymore...
I would never go back to a relationship if ako maluoy ko nya, bahala nag sakit pero I know it's right. Pero it really depends on the situation talaga.
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