He's Gone

[angelfyre]

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the love of my life died. car accident in saudi. last feb 22. uli na unta sya last 24. maboang ko sa kasakit.

[monrose29]

the love of my life died. car accident in saudi. last feb 22. uli na unta sya last 24. maboang ko sa kasakit.

ohh girl. sakit jud na.. tell me lang unsa amo ikatabang nmo...

[tsikay101]

the love of my life died. car accident in saudi. last feb 22. uli na unta sya last 24. maboang ko sa kasakit.

sis im so sorry to hear this... it is really painful and right now bisan unsa pa na words di jud ka pugong sa kasakit, bsta be strong nalang jud...

[angelfyre]

i knw drama kaau ni. my friends joked gane nga ipadala daw sa maalaala mo kaya.

dli nako ganahan makamata, inig mata nako, magcge kog hilak ky il realize nga wla na sya. maynalng unta tog nagbulag or nag away, at least nara man dha. pero patay na jd. in denial jd ko ky wla pa man niabot iyang body.

problema napd inig 2log. i cant sleep. i havent been sleeping since 22.

dli man jd nako madawat. bsan unsaon. i thought this only happens in the movies, think Ghost. or city of angels. how could god allow us to meet if we cant be together. cruel ra kaau oi. all my plans involve him. now i dunno wat to do next. sakit ra kaau.

[PsYchBoY009]

We all have our own sad stories to tell. Others even have worst experiences with the people they have loved. But no matter how painful life and loving can be, God never fails to give us strength to bear it. He never fails to let the sun shine through even during the darkest and stormiest moments in our lives. He makes us fall, not to hurt us, but to teach us that we should never give up despite our failures. He makes us cry, not to make us miserable, but to make us realize how important love is. And most of all, he takes away a person from us, not because we don’t deserve him but because he has someone better for us. That’s how it always works. Give yourself a chance. You just have to believe that there is still life after losing love and sometimes, that life will be better because it can be shared with someone who’d love you more than anything else in this world.

All of us will have to face the day when we have to say goodbye to the people who mean so much to us. This is a time when we would feel a deep loss because a part of us has gone with that person. Life starts to lose its meaning and our reason for existence fades into oblivion. The thought of losing someone is scary because when we are so used to having someone around, it always seems impossible to go on with life without that person.

Condolence.

[tsikay101]

wa pa ko kasuway na bf ang nawala nako (heaven forbid), pero i did experience losing someone na love kaayo nako ug important jud kaayo nako-- my mom.

i was in denial and that was like 6 years ago and up to now di pa jud ko kaingon na naaccept na jud nako, , ga cge ra ko think na naa pa sya, na nilakaw lang. di jud nako hunahunaon na patay na ako mommy. i never cried infront of pipol, during the wake, i stayed upstairs, watching tv or sleeping. i never talk about it but kun ako nalang sa ako room i cry myself to sleep jud. my friends think na strong kaayo ko, wa lang sila kbaw sa pain behind those smiles and laughter.

basta sis, give urself time to grieve, cry if you want to cry. time would eventually heal those wounds and of course prayers. if u cant talk to people around you, talk to God and he would listen. if im so down, mao na ako buhaton, and believe me after a long talk with God, mas gaan imo feeling.

[angelfyre]

alcohol puts me to sleep. pero even if mahubog ko, d alcohol doesnt numb the pain. wat im feeling now, translates to physical pain. kana ganing sakit kaau sa dughan nya mo manifest physically? naay time il just burst into tears. good thing maau kaau iyang kuya nako except sa iyang ate, nga nagselos. reli dont care. i want to follow him soon.

[P-Chan]

alcohol is not the answer to that kind of problem.. you have to face the facts one day at a time..

[Gwynhuever]

sis...*gives her a hug*...i am so sorry to hear this...please do not make yourself ill....drinking will not solve anything...ma worse pa hinuon imo situation kay it will cloud your thinking....

i had the same experience....my first bf died the day before his 29th birthday...at that time i thought i died with him too...even breathing hurt.....please allow the grieving process to run its course...cry....and be with friends ...people you can really share/talk to....one day at a time lang sis....one day at a time...

stay strong and my deepest sympathy with your loss....

[jakie]

He's Gone.....but you're not.

You're still here, on his behalf i'd like to say, he would rather see you surviving this. Be strong, the book a purpose driven life had these thoughts: the life we have on earth is temporary, it's not even halfway of the real thing which is eternity. On eternity we will be reunited with the love ones we lost on earth...today, while still on earth, find your purpose, know that here,today is only a preparation of the life we will be living forever.

Grieve, but promise not to keep the pain, only the lessons learned. You met because you are meant to be together,...soon. Hold on to your faith.He loves you more than you would have thought you knew.

My greatest sympathy.