how to act mature in a relationship?

[jwing7]

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im a first timer guys...

unsaon pag-act mature?

i want to maintain this relationship long enough

datu siya ako tawn as in walang wala..

bati kog nawng siya pirting gwapaha..


nya tungod sa beauty and brains niya maglisod kog handle sa amo relasyon
usahay kay naa juy mga taw mag-apil2 sa relasyon namo
mao nang maglagot dayon ko

we've been one year na kagahapon ra i just wanna maintain it..

[MisterSuave]

ang answer ana TS kay i reverse ra nimo ang imong question. To act mature, you have to stop acting like a child. Simple kaayo. Wa ko ga ingon nga you are being childish kay di man ta kaila.. ang ako lang is think of things nga paminaw nimo binata ra kaayo. mao nay usba. ang things nga paminaw nimo mature enough to handle your relationship, mao nay e maintain ug e upgrade. di sad na pa dali2x. it takes time.

[bowee]

maturity comes not with age... but with experience...

you don't need to act maturely in your relationship bro... you just need to let her feel your love and act responsible enough for your actions.

You don't need to lower yourself down because she is rich and you are not.. nor she is smart and your just average.... low self esteem can sometimes turn off a girl...

Raise your head up high bro.. the fact that she has accepted you for who and what you are as a person... means to say she has long accepted you already sa imong pagka ikaw jud....
Dili man kalikayan ang mga other people who constantly creates rifts sa inyong relationship.. nasuya lang na sila... treat them as mga "LAMAS" sa inyong relationship... Spices to sweetened more your beautiful relationship already... if wala ng mga lamas bro.. your love would so boring jud. Don't fret.. there's no perfect relationship in this world... We all need people to correct and criticize us.. positive or negative man ilang mga pagsaway... they mold us to become a better person one way or the other.

so Cheerup bro.. your in the tip top shape of your relationship with your girlfriend.... I congratulate you for that..

and Oh by the way.... Happy Anniversary diay ninyo sa imong gf... Make your relationship strong always...

[Moongoddess28]

hmmmm...mature?


I think you need to stop focusing on your physical aspects, first.
hehhehe.

Goodluck, =)

[monrose29]

base sa akogn epxerienced bro..

ang pagka mature sa usa ka tawo nagkaninhanglan og inspiration or idol nimo nga tawo. lalaki or babaye..ako barkadista ka ayo ko inom deri inom ddto.. klase klase nga tawo ako na sugatan..adik2. standby..driver mga bag.ong tubo ug uban pa...

ang naka pa matured nako akong cousin nga seaman everytime mag inom me among topic about sa family, communication sa family kanang mag away2x, mga gastohan sa pag eskuyla og uban pa. mga seryoso nga butang..

in short kung gusto ka ma mature seryosoha ang butang nga gusto nimo buhaton, didication gyud na bro, during my HS days bogoy ka ayo ko layas ko sa balay ka 3 ko nag balik og high school wa ko mag agi og 3rd year. may gali ka pasar ko sa placement exam. so pag 4th year nako nag seryos na gyud ko..

deli ka mature bro kong deli ka mag agi og kalisud sa relationship kay deli man ka maka huna2x or deli ka maka tilaw og kasakit or para mag amping or makahibaw ka og asa ka nasayop...

deli ra ba nah diha2 ma usab dayon ka.. ta-as pa ka ayo kag agi-an.. isa pa kong kina iya gyud na nimo lisud gyud ka ayo nah e control or e adjust but as you said you love your girl then kaya ka ayo nah nmo..

understand her, if tan awo nimo nga deli na ma ayo then imo sya sultihan, but ayaw pod ng pina yaw-yaw style... kana pina lambing.. kana gali mura kag nag bantay og bata nga kong madagma imong pa barogon am-aman.. kong mohilak imong lingawon... deli kay mo sabay sad ka niya nga lagot sya lagot pod ka... yaw-yaw sya yaw-yaw pod ka.. di bah prehas namo bata ana...

ana lang nah ka sayon e sulti pero lisud buhaton hehehe.. bitaw kaya na nimo...

[lintanks]

One can not ACT mature. One must Be MATURED. This is to say, one must live, sleep, feel matured. It comes naturally. However, your immediate relationships with others will help you mature.

[HeartStops]

accept the facts sa mga short comings sa inyong relationship and be prepared to handle situations in a way na ma surpass nimo ang feelings of anger etc. never make a decision na naa ka sa stage of anger kay makasakit ka then magregret rasad ka.

[cptn_star]

maturity is not scripted. it only comes out naturally.

[Cory1986]

be yourself! tan.aw nako nimo bata pa ka. dont grow suddenly because of that relationship. slow down and have fun! take your time and enjoy youth and rip the experiences along the way. these experiences will make u mature. Accdg to survey, gamay ra jd ang percentage nga magkadayun mo sa imong puppy love so just chill and enjoy the feeling. Learn from your mistakes. It'll make u wiser

[cptn_star]

maturity comes from realizations, experiences and lessons learned both the easy way and the hard way.