The confidante type will share about his own life experiences and  difficulties, and invite the target to share hers. He will invent  stories to win admiration or sympathy. His target may feel valued and  trusted, and will become an involuntary confidante.  “Without genuine  mutual agreement, the relationship is moved into an intimate domain,”  from which the target may find it difficult to extricate themselves. lol  
The Kuya a.k.a. The Counselor-Helper Probably the most  calculated of all... 'Manong' will try to create a mentor-like  relationship with his target, all the while masking his sexual (pautog)  intentions with pretenses towards personal, professional, or academic  attention.  Manong will gather information about his target's interests  and vulnerabilitie s,  may act as a go-between in relationships that his target is having  difficulty with--such as relationships with boyfriends, coworkers, or  family members. These are forms of 
grooming,  and in doing this, Manong can increase his stature with his target and  earn her trust. Then again, the relationship is moved into an intimate  domain. 
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..To the boyss: no offense guys ha...
...Girls, kinsa naman nabiktima ani na style

hihihih, ug Boys, unsa mn ani nga style inyo gigamit? =)