Im not happy

[exotic girl]

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for the 3 years of relationship,im not happy,i suffered for 2 years of his behaviormbut now i cant feel the hapiness of the relatonship,y?can u help me,ako bf walang ka effort effort,although he will go to out house pero mura lng ug wala,he has cellfon pero mo text lng kng ganahan,kuhaon tuod ko niya pero y lami?asa mn ako luv?help me pls wat to do.cge lng ako ang mangita ug way sa relatonship nga comfortable pero he will not cooperate with me.ano ba to??

[CaseyR.]

sis.. pangita nlng lain if wla na jd love. makibaw mn pd cguro ka if love pka niya or dili na. Kaysa mgdugay mo, mas dako ug damage. be happy and enjoy life lang gd.

[RainDrizzle07]

- probably ni abot na mo sa kapoul na stage.. will bein in that relationship for too long, will really get into you..specially if you and your partner are not doing anything to add fun to your relationship.

Honestly, ka sulay nako aneh... from 2 years hangtod almost 3 years mi.. as in pooooooooooooouuuuuuuuulllllllllllll na jud kaayo para nako amo relationship... nya kay napul an man jud ko.. ngita ko ug way na malingaw akong utok.. minus the bf... which is a good thing... kay karon...okey nasd kaayo me....

We cant really change our partner from who and what they are, we can only change how we react to what they are doing & all... so its really up to us if we really want to be in a situation where in we are not happy or if we will do something to get out from the boredom...

and sometimes it will also help if we can reflect btaw... if as a girlfriend/boyfriend what have we contribute sa relationship, kay bacn pud diay naa tay nabuhat nano na ingon ana ang ending sa relationship...kay bati kaayo ng i blame nato tanan ato ka bored or what we are feeling sa atong bf, kay c bf won't do this, c bf wont do that, c bf is not like this, c bf should be like this.. @_@ mas yupakz jud ng ingon ana...bacg ang ending c bf/gf atong mahayon.. ^_^

From what I have understand, most of the female populace ( and males too) have an imagination already on how their partner should treat them or how they should be treated, murag sa imong self you already have an expectation ba, which is not good coz you are also putting a strain to the relationship..

Mas maau jud ng pasagdaan nlng jud ng partner ug unsa ila ganahan buhaton.. and let them be..what makes them happy.. (without sacrificing your identity as a gf/bf as well ^_^) Mas dali ng ingon ana..

if your bf is not available to go with you... d lakaw gd na ikaw lang usa.. ngita ka ug lingaw.. kaysa ma stress ka ug huna2x na mao ng na bored ka and dli kahappy coz imo bf dli pd makakyog or dli mokyog nmo.. haller imo raba ng bf.. dli imong yayo.. ^_^

usa pa sad... dli man kaha imong bf ang nagdala sa imong footwear or nag kupot sa imong plite..
kbaw ka mas happy jud ug dli ka mag agad ug taw.. or mag depend ba noon sa laing taw sa imong happiness... kay without you knowing it.. bacg stress pud imong bf...ug unsa on ka pag pa happy... ^_^


you talk it over... wla jud dli masulbad sa mag storya... (though dapat lang pud when mag storya mo..you are open minded and wont be defensive, kay dli namo maka storya tarong coz mag cge namo huna2x unsay dapat i counter sa accusation nya nako..dli na noon magka sinabot..^_^ )


hope this helps!!

Enjoy.. ^_^

[jblim1980]

buwage nalang oi ky useles lang cge ka pakigrelasyun niya dn wla na diay kay love...

[WEI?]

Tell her the truth sis sa imung na feel para niya...total wla bitaw mawagtang kung mutug-an lang ka sa tinuod.


-WEI?

[gkoopir]

Dapat mag storya mo kay problema mani or basin ikaw ra na problema nya siya wla.
Pasabta siya nga you are trying to save the relationship cuz it stays like that, it will fall to pieces ang 3yrs ninyo.

[djmico_85]

if naay lain manguyab nimo sugta, may be d sad xa hapi nimo..

[cp103]

for the 3 years of relationship,im not happy,i suffered for 2 years of his behaviormbut now i cant feel the hapiness of the relatonship,y?can u help me,ako bf walang ka effort effort,although he will go to out house pero mura lng ug wala,he has cellfon pero mo text lng kng ganahan,kuhaon tuod ko niya pero y lami?asa mn ako luv?help me pls wat to do.cge lng ako ang mangita ug way sa relatonship nga comfortable pero he will not cooperate with me.ano ba to??

hmmm, funny how i bump into this thread after not having visited the relationship section for a long time now. Anyway, ka.relate ko sa imo situation sis, or rather, you are feeling the same feelings that my x had kadtong kami pa. Obvious nman cguro w/o saying it, but i did what your bf is doing to u at this moment in your relationship.

Advice lang nako nimo sis, it's either talk to him to do something about the status of your relationship or you decide if you should ditch him and discover your happiness elsewhere (i'm not saying you should look for another guy or something ha, coz happiness can come from anywhere, not just in intimate relationships).

Just a thought, if your not happy, then you shouldn't be in that relationship.

[jeff_bonz59]

y be a martyr and stick to someone when your not happy w/ him anymore..if it's still something worth fighting for then open up to him your feelings, or if it's not worth it na jud.. then just let him go nalang..

[raizene]

pangetag lain sis..murag wla naman na xa interest nimu, murag for the sake na gf ka nya mao naa lng japon iyaha usual na ginabuhat..but then murag bugnaw na tingali na xa nimu