HELP My boyfriend has a son

[jamylicious]

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I'm so confused with my relationship right now with this guy who already had a son with his previous relationship...His son is under his custody after he broke up with his ex...Well, before i committed to him i already know his situation..At first, i thought it was just OK..but later on , i find myself getting jealous to his son because every time we're spending time together he's always talking about his son and even in our conversation in the phone..And worst is he's bringing his son often in our dates..I don't know what's really my role in his life..I'm so confused if I'll stick to this kind of relationship ..help guyzz...give some piece of advice with my situation...

[Cruzader]

At least he wasn't a coward like majority of the guys in the Philippines.

[jamylicious]

what do you mean?

[mELay]

when u get into the situation you knew about it right? so accept it.. thats why he sticks to you cause he knows you accepted him and his son.. think of yourself a part of his family.. what do you want to talk about diay? yourself? its about you and him and who he loves. and believe me the more you'll love his kid.. the more he will need you and love you..

[jblim1980]

dont get jealous coz the love as a son and his love for you is different..ana jud na sis if you have a kids already if naa kay ka estorya puro jud na about you kids ang topic coz we are proud..just like me..treat his son as your own please dont compete on him coz ang bata angayan jud na tagaan ug love while ikaw diba dako napod ka then im sure ur parents love you...cguro if u try to love the babby mapun an pa ang love sa u bf dha nimo..dont get jelous coz u have still a place in his heart

[jamylicious]

tnx sa inyo advice..honestly i feel better..
.im learning to love his son man..but im so scared nga ma-abot ang time nga mbalik ang mama sa bata then mag samok namu..

[jewel_anne10]

well, you should accept his son... nanjan na eh di na yan mawawala...

[froi]

its a matter of acceptance..

[Kishin888]

accept lang gud

[shizzle013]

ok ra man siguro na....normal ra pud na sa part sa guy kay dad baya siya and he has a big responsibility ahead of him....maybe pud he wants you to be a part of their life not just the both of you...bisag unsaon nimo part of him baya na iya son murag bale package deal.....hehehe bisan man pud siguro kung ikaw ang naay anak, i think you would constantly talk about your child...lahi ra man gud ang feeling kung parent naka.....

you should be proud of him kay he took that responsibility...rare ra kaayo na ang mga ing.ana na guys.....para pud siguro mas dali nimu ma accept ang situation, try getting close with his son and bond with him....that would really help change your perception.....and eventually you'll learn to love his son na pud.....

sus kung ako pa ang naa sa imo situation nuh, murag ako jud ang mag una-una ug open sa topic bout his son....ako pud xa ingnon "dalha permi imo anak ha" hehehe hinoon nahan man gud kog bata gud.....pero dali ra jud na mahulog imo loob sa iya anak....ana bya jud ng mga bata....