My Child's First Day Of School

[realcrow77]

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hw can we make our baby's 1st day of school(tomorrow-may4,20090 a very memorable one?she's just 3 years old.

[masterjanuarius]

just keep cool ... but, I am not really cool to 3 years old going to school. Good luck.

[d`monyita]

just be there when she gets out. there is nothing more reassuring to a child than the knowledge that a parent is nearby.

transferring this to the right forum...

[iveslovespink]

goodluck sa separation anxiety..
just be there for the baby.. hatud kuha..
then bawni xag sandwich and milk.. hehehe..

[Sol_Itaire]

most preschools allow the parents in for the first 2-3 days. that's for children with separation anxiety. after that, though, they just let the child cry. mo undang ra lagi na. trust me.

ang problema man kay kung ang parent maoy naay separation anxiety. di mahiluna nga biyaan ilang anak sa classroom LOL. parents like that are really annoying, did you know that? hahaha

if you chose a good program with good teachers, there should be nothing to worry about.

[d`monyita]

when my son started his school...he was also three... he just waved to me and said.... "it is okay, mama... see you later!" tapos sabay talikod. waaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh

haaaayyyy korek ka solitaire.....ang separation anxiety kay ang sa akin hahahhahahhahaha

[angelcreu]

most preschools allow the parents in for the first 2-3 days. that's for children with separation anxiety. after that, though, they just let the child cry. mo undang ra lagi na. trust me.

ang problema man kay kung ang parent maoy naay separation anxiety. di mahiluna nga biyaan ilang anak sa classroom LOL. parents like that are really annoying, did you know that? hahaha

if you chose a good program with good teachers, there should be nothing to worry about.

hi wife of realcrow77 here.....yes naa ra ba jud ako husband ug ako sad ani ms.---parent anxiety---wn me(wd my family side) n my baby spent an overnight stay n crown regency, he wasn't able to sleep for its his first time spending the nyt without us on his side..( he was quite busy wd his business then)...kas kau load n nanginit amo dunggan cge talk sa fon...ky gimingaw au cya ni baby...ahhh ug nko sad oyyy........hope we can overcome this...but 3 hours raman sad iya class....

thanks sa reply...it helped us realize n b aware of wat we'll gonna feel 2mrw....

[realcrow77]

just keep cool ... but, I am not really cool to 3 years old going to school. Good luck.

thanks!
she's d one telling us her interest to go to school na so we enroll her .....she even ask a study table already so i made one for her........hehe quite smart huh!

[ooopinkgurlooo]

aq i was still 2 daw wen i first went to school.... mao guro maypgka "NANING" ko hehe

[Sol_Itaire]

hi wife of realcrow77 here.....yes naa ra ba jud ako husband ug ako sad ani ms.---parent anxiety---wn me(wd my family side) n my baby spent an overnight stay n crown regency, he wasn't able to sleep for its his first time spending the nyt without us on his side..( he was quite busy wd his business then)...kas kau load n nanginit amo dunggan cge talk sa fon...ky gimingaw au cya ni baby...ahhh ug nko sad oyyy........hope we can overcome this...but 3 hours raman sad iya class....

thanks sa reply...it helped us realize n b aware of wat we'll gonna feel 2mrw....

di maayu nang i display inyung separation anxiety in front of your kid. he/she will get that, too. you want your child to have high emotional intelligence, right? so always think that independence is good for him.

tell you of an extreme scenario: a 5 year-old boy wouldn't let go of his mom. so ang mama mosulod jud sa classroom. extreme na ni kay ang 2 year-old gani gi biyaan na. it was separation anxiety + manipulative behavior. spoiled na jud ang bata. ang pag spoil sa anak kay makita gyud sa classroom; maka cause jud og problems sa teachers and classmates. so for MONTHS, sige hilak ang bata, manglabnot sa buhok sa teachers, mamatid sa bungbong, di mo participate. ang mama kay di na man jud pasudlon sa room, so ato siya sa waiting area anxious pod kaayu kay iyang anak disruptive man. but the teachers were very firm and consistent. ni pay off ra gyud tawn after a few months well adjusted na. gi address pod ang issue of spoiling the child. thankful ang parents kay when the child entered grade 1 in another school, he showed independence and leadership skills. murag intervention jud to iyang 1 year of preschool.

so parents, always remember that independence is good for your children. don't deprive them of opportunities to learn it.

more power sa inyung pagka parents