In a relationship, it’s easy to fall into a pattern. And I’m not saying there’s something wrong with routine. It's really quite lovely to be with someone who makes you feel so secure that you can go through life unfazed by the bullsh*t. But you have to be careful in love. Sometimes, you can confuse being comfortable with being happy. All too often, we find ourselves in long-term relationships that don't excite us. We stay because we're terrified of the ...