She loves me for what i am or for what she thought i would be?

[themanwhocantbemoved]

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Guys, need ko ug advice. Mao ni ako situation. Naa koi textmate sauna first year college pa ko. Nya naka uyab mn ko pg 3rd year until ni graduate ko mao to wala na mi ngk text for pila ka years. Nagkabuwag mis ako uyab so murag na timingan nga ngkachat mis fb ngkatextmate na sd mi balik. Graduate na mi both, ako kay computer course nya cya CPA. Pero ni proceed ko ug lain course (engineering). Mao cguro nk attract niya mao iya ko g sugot. Uyab na mi ron. Ingon na xa nako daan before nga "mas maayo if ma engineer sa ko before ko ipa ila2 sa iya parents". Wala lang ko ad2 kae basin joke2 ra ba. Karon kay gikapoi na kog skwela, di na jd madala ganahan na ko mo work, so nag apply2 ko lately nya nadawat ko ug web develpopment job. Ni work ko, ako xa g ingnan nga basin naae chance nga di nako humanon ako engineering course. After that, kae murag na lain xa gnahan jd xa mo skwela pa ko, pero g ingnan ko nya nga mo support ra jd xa asa ko ma happy. Pero after ad2 kay murag cold na kaau xa nako.

Guys kung kamo naa sako situation unsa inyo buhaton?

ang naa sa ako mind kay mupadayon na lng kog skwela. I can be an engineer for her. Pero nahadlok ko basin tigulang na ko mo graduate ba nya wa na nuon mo dawat nako ug trabaho. Gnahan mn ko sako first course sd, most people i underestimate lang nila. Pero kaya ra mn jd nako ang engineering ba, should i proceed sako engineering course? kung mo proceed ko im not doing it for myself jd im doing it for her.

[neversaydie]

TS: if she do really love you she will support kung asa ka happy. Makaproud man sad siguro bisan unsa job naa ka and your responsible. nakagraduate man sad ka. she will understand you.. talk to her lang about it.. kaysa magbasol ka in the end.

[themanwhocantbemoved]

TS: if she do really love you she will support kung asa ka happy. Makaproud man sad siguro bisan unsa job naa ka and your responsible. nakagraduate man sad ka. she will understand you.. talk to her lang about it.. kaysa magbasol ka in the end.

thanks sis. pero kahibaw na ko unsa resulta if amo na storyahan she will tell me nga ok ra nya happy xa kung asa ko happy when i know nga di jd na completely true. Right now ako xa g ingnan nga mg take lang ko ug gamay na subjects para mk work sd ko. After ad2 kay ok na xa.. sweet and everything. Naglibog jd ko.

[neversaydie]

well, ana man jud na ts, she is comparing na murag malevel sad imong mahuman sa iyaha CPA sya right? ana mana mga babae.. specially kung naa pud prssure sa iyang part for example sa iyang parents, pero it is still with you, kay lain man sad ug dili ka happy sa imong gibuhat, if you will be happy doing it for her, mainspire ka and you will perform well bisan asa pa pero if dili murag lisud jud.. by the way dugay namu na uyab TS, because it will matter man sad...unsa sad imong nahuman na murag gidowngrade man?

[themanwhocantbemoved]

well, ana man jud na ts, she is comparing na murag malevel sad imong mahuman sa iyaha CPA sya right? ana mana mga babae.. specially kung naa pud prssure sa iyang part for example sa iyang parents, pero it is still with you, kay lain man sad ug dili ka happy sa imong gibuhat, if you will be happy doing it for her, mainspire ka and you will perform well bisan asa pa pero if dili murag lisud jud.. by the way dugay namu na uyab TS, because it will matter man sad...unsa sad imong nahuman na murag gidowngrade man?

BSIT ra tawn sis. ganahan ko sa imo tubag. uhmm 3 months pa mi. Ako plano kae mo padayon lng jd karon june while ga work sd, enroll lang ko ug gamay nga loads. pero karon summer mg work sa ko.. Haiii paita sd ani oi. Ka close minded sd sa uban tao oi.. Our work is amazing mn sd di lng nindot ang title. hehehe.

[cloudduster]

Go where your heart is. Kung she's worth fighting for, din humana ang Engineering. Kung feel nimo maka kita pa kag mo pa pitik sa imong heart, then it's time to let her go.

Think about it, kung ma mingyo namo, nya di sya ka gusto sa imong desisyun, pila kaha ka buwan dili ka nya ting-gan.

3 months pa mo and you're acting like this?!? We don't belong to people forever

[neversaydie]

well , ts bag o paman sad diay mo, there is more to go. . mabaw ra kaayo na a problem karon. nice pud na imoha na magenroll para sa imong gf, kana imong nahuman dili nana awahi sa panahon, you can have a great pay na ana.. mao man sad na gisukod sa imong uyab, na dapat mas labaw kag income, kay makapanghambog jud ba.. ako uyab kay engineer blah blah blah .. ana lang. pero in the long run, ibase man jud na how responsible you are, for now give time for yourself and go ahead of your plans.. lisud jud if you will be with people na close minded, reminder lang ts, kana close minded people are not willing tyo accept your reasons, himoon na nilanw excuse nimu instead. I have been with close minded peopel my entite life until now, and mind you lisud gyud,kay bisan unsaon nimu ug explain dili na sila makasabot even how bright, educated or not. basta ana nalang ts, just be happy of what you have now with your GF.. total there's more to come pa sa inyoha, muabot ra ang time nga dili naka , if you can endure , good for you.. hope everything will be fine, yaw lang sa kapresure maayo oi enjoy lang sa mo... dapat nana sad ka job para atleast dili ka makafeel ug gilookdown ka.

[themanwhocantbemoved]

well , ts bag o paman sad diay mo, there is more to go. . mabaw ra kaayo na a problem karon. nice pud na imoha na magenroll para sa imong gf, kana imong nahuman dili nana awahi sa panahon, you can have a great pay na ana.. mao man sad na gisukod sa imong uyab, na dapat mas labaw kag income, kay makapanghambog jud ba.. ako uyab kay engineer blah blah blah .. ana lang. pero in the long run, ibase man jud na how responsible you are, for now give time for yourself and go ahead of your plans.. lisud jud if you will be with people na close minded, reminder lang ts, kana close minded people are not willing tyo accept your reasons, himoon na nilanw excuse nimu instead. I have been with close minded peopel my entite life until now, and mind you lisud gyud,kay bisan unsaon nimu ug explain dili na sila makasabot even how bright, educated or not. basta ana nalang ts, just be happy of what you have now with your GF.. total there's more to come pa sa inyoha, muabot ra ang time nga dili naka , if you can endure , good for you.. hope everything will be fine, yaw lang sa kapresure maayo oi enjoy lang sa mo... dapat nana sad ka job para atleast dili ka makafeel ug gilookdown ka.

wow salamat kaau sis. murag ni gaan2 ako feeling ron da. hehehe. bitaw sd sa? bag.o pa mn mi.. bacn pa diay mg change iya mind later. Salamat jd kaau sis. hehehe. Pero if ana jd xa ka close minded like i think she is, if ever mn gani ma engineer ko in the future, di sd ko niya oi. hehehe. THANKS sis you helped a lot jd.

[neversaydie]

wow salamat kaau sis. murag ni gaan2 ako feeling ron da. hehehe. bitaw sd sa? bag.o pa mn mi.. bacn pa diay mg change iya mind later. Salamat jd kaau sis. hehehe. Pero if ana jd xa ka close minded like i think she is, if ever mn gani ma engineer ko in the future, di sd ko niya oi. hehehe. THANKS sis you helped a lot jd.

you're very much welcome bro, it's nice to know nigaan gaan imong pamati.. just know yourselves lang sa pagkakaron, you are still on the stage of getting to know each other though it's an everyday proces bisan maabtan pamo ug pila ka years.. kung very close minded man gani kaayo na sya aws.. lain na jud ha heheheh so makasleep naka diha ron?

[themanwhocantbemoved]

you're very much welcome bro, it's nice to know nigaan gaan imong pamati.. just know yourselves lang sa pagkakaron, you are still on the stage of getting to know each other though it's an everyday proces bisan maabtan pamo ug pila ka years.. kung very close minded man gani kaayo na sya aws.. lain na jud ha heheheh so makasleep naka diha ron?

hahaha. bag.o ra ko ni mata sis. Kung ma abtan mi ug years sis tungod jd nimo. Murag tanan nako worries and kalibog na cover jd sa imo replies. hehehe