Lying in Relationships

[glitzy]

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Lying in Relationships


Everyone lies - stretching the truth. But can you improve your relationship through lying? How far can you stretch the truth? Some of us believe that lying is warding off telling the truth as opposed to actually not saying it. Lying by omission - the one where a trial balance also cannot discover.

Do you practice ZERO tolerance or are you okay with little lies?

A relationship that allows the pettiest of lies can erode its foundations - lying induces a snowball effect. The easiest yet toughest thing to do when you want to establish trust is to be upfront with your partner and straighten out any lies that you are currently involved in.

Let’s be factual - you will lie again. We’re human. But, you can learn to be more honest in your daily conversations. What propels you to lie? Trying to impress or trying to hide something? When you start to realize the grounds for you to lie, you will stop your lying ways of life.

Lying in Relationships | The Gallivantings of Daniel Franklin

[medjz]

true. we have to lie sumtyms to save relationships.. ginagmay lang ba.. hehe ang mga lake pud kay murag gi program jud na mu lie.. hangtod masakpan.. hehehe pero dil tanan.. mostly lang.

[glitzy]

and to quote from some of the site's comments:

1. If anyone thinks by lying it can help you strengthen or build trust in relationship…think again. And if a person think that by lying will keep their partner stay..that is just purely selfish!

2. people say, when you tell a lie, you have to make more lies to cover the first lie

and I agree.....

[r3roble]

well it's called white lies...

[jiro]

situation 1
my chuby gurlfriend ask me if she's sexy
- id be lying if i say she is but i know it does make her feel good.
* so i lie - in a good way. Of course honey! you are still beautiful and super sexy sa lahat! ^_^ mwaks!

situation 2
I have a very dark/evil/embarrassing (this or that), my current gf ask me if i had done (this or that)?
- i know i want to be honest, i just dont want to hurt her at the same time i dont want to lie.
* so i dont say it. Plausable deniability. Just ask her back - What if i am? would you still love me?
* if she still insist, i will just smile. least, i know i didnt lie. its like saying the truth unconsciously.

situation 3
My boss ask me to lie to the client.
- i will never lie to anyone that will discredit my credibility.
* so i will tell my customer that my boss ask me to lie to them.

depends on right and wrong or good and bad.

[glitzy]

labi na daw mga guys

[jiro]

and to quote from some of the site's comments:
1. If anyone thinks by lying it can help you strengthen or build trust in relationship…think again. And if a person think that by lying will keep their partner stay..that is just purely selfish!

situation 1 above and situation 2.
do you think im selfish? and a bad lover?

[glitzy]

situation 1 above.
do you think im selfish? and a bad lover?

kabasa naman ko situations nimo tanan,unya para nako kay medyo ok ra na nga lies gagmay lang gud kaayo.

ang uban kay mag lie baya na bisan gi ingnan na nt to do so

so,for all of us let's not play safe by lying. the sooner your partner finds out,you'd end up hurting him/her nalang wui

[godsaint]

"If you stretch the truth watch out for the snapback"Bisan unsa pa diha basta lie sayop gyud na.

[jiro]

yeah.. nothing is greater than morally telling the truth.

i'd avoid lying. if possible never.

^_^ let's play safe by not saying at all.