Getting back with ex for the 3rd time

[DooDz22]

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Hi istorians! I need your opinion and tambag with this,


Naa koy ex, we just came back together after a year and a half breakup and with those time naa mi tagsa2 ka uyab atong panahona,
We decided to get back together kay mao lagi love pa namo isig usa and not totally nagbalik mi kay we want to get back to zero
so nanguyab ko niya balik and we labeled each other as Dating not uyab pajud.
So heres the issue , only close friend knows na nagbalik mi and its been like the 3rd time we broke up and getting back again together kanang
pagbalik namu usually it takes 3-5 months since our break up then magbalik rapud mi and in those months iyahay mig makauyab.
nya karun since wala pa namu gipahibawo publicly , we want to let our families and close friends to know na nagbalik mi..and of course
if magbuwag baya we speak ill to each other and pina bias ug dating ba arun mahimong bati ang pikas na party and himoung rason nganu gabuwag mo labi na mangutana ang friends ug family nganu gabuwag mo..magpabida jud ka na di ikaw rason nganu gabuwag mo ba..binata style ba...
so karun amu rasad gikaon amung giluwa , funny kay sa? but we choose to get back and try to work things out and we had a long talk about our diffrences nganu gabuwag mi..where did we go wrong..unsay naka cause sa break up... for the first time we talk to each other with no bitterness ug way bikil..kay sauna bisan gabalik mi naa ang bikil2 lagi.. but karun we accept each other flaws we dont bring up the past to win the argument we just talked how can we work this things again na di mabalik ang karaang issue and prove to each other na nausab najud and we're facing our current issues or lalis with mature thinking ba.. instead na padak`on ang issue we talk on how we can resolve or workaround.. and we try our best not to hold grudges labi na mag petty fights mi..we sort it out before the night ends and so far super good kaayo amu status,
we had a some petty fights kanang ginagmayng away ug luod gud but most of the time we are knowing each other balik kay nabag`ohan mis isig usa kay these past year daghan baya nahitabo
so daghan pud nausab namo.


back to the main issue , Karun we talk na unsaon namu pag open up ug unsaon sad namo pag prove nausab najud among partner
and regarding sa close friends sabot raman sad sila and they have their comments but they are supportive kay kahibaw man sila sa
amu naagian , pero amu lang jud problema is the family , kay once ang family imu storyaan lisud na baya usbon ang ila perpective ug paglantaw nmo
and we want to know how can we handle this and approach this ,

[beyee]

Always remember that when couples fight and break up,
families of both parties also get hurt in the process so
going through the same ordeal is never a joke. You can
never blame them if they will give you a hard time once
you tell them.

Just tell them the real score. And next time when you guys fight,
spare your families from all the heartaches. Couples sort out
their problems effectively when they don't involve other people
in the argument. Kamo man naay problema, kamo pod mosolbad
sa inyo away.

[gracie7]

Sa 3x mu gabuwag unsa man reason?
Di kaha magbalik ra mu because of FAMILIARITY?
And that nagka rebound mu tagsa2 and that wa mu nasatisfy unsa gyud inyo gipangita?

if magbuwag baya we speak ill to each other and pina bias ug dating ba arun mahimong bati ang pikas na party and himoung rason nganu gabuwag mo labi na mangutana ang friends ug family nganu gabuwag mo..magpabida jud ka na di ikaw rason nganu gabuwag mo ba..binata style ba...

Di kaha you both need to grow and mature first before you work on your "relationship"? Like you said na binata og style.
The thing with exes is don't speak ill about them because you'll never know when and if you'll eat those words that you've said.

For me, ako ra sad ni ha, mag buwag or gibuwagan ka once, mahitabo ra gyud nah balik.
Like in your case 3x, I'm not being nega or anything but the thing is you just gravitate towards each other because kana lagi familiarity.

As for the main issue, the family, don't tell them rather show them na this time you'll work things out na gyud.

[THE KID]

mag away ra gihapon mo....its a series of away...ang pangutana karon... gi accept ba jud ninyo ang usag usa og unsa mo?

[Little_Mermaid88]

they say love is sweeter the 2nd time around (or the 3rd time in your case), before opening up to your family that you got back together, make sure nga you are both mature and you're really in it for the long haul. imagine unsai ma-feel sa inyong family nga makahibaw nga ngbalik ra gihapon mo after speaking ill about each other before.

[rl]

"so karun amu rasad gikaon amung giluwa , funny kay sa?"

not funny but rather childish. but bro, i believe you will not have a smooth sailing if mag balik mu.

i've been there. and its not a pretty picture. i would suggest you would find another partner that is really for u

[C'thulhu]

Akong ma advice TS, you do what you want to do, not what other people think you ought to do. It is your life, not theirs.

[THE KID]

“sometimes you have to break up to grow up,it takes two grown ups to make a relationship works..”-Mark

[luff101]

Tell the real score, it only take 20 seconds of embarrassing courage for you to tell.

[cyberchrono]

mura rman ug ga duwa2......hinoon murag mao sad na inyo gibuhat ga duwa2 mo sa inyong feelings sa usag usa