Kinabuhi nimo kang EX vs. Kinabuhi nimo karon

[gracie7]

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Kinabuhi nimo kang EX vs. Kinabuhi nimo karon sa imong present.

Unsay ikasulti ninyong kalahian sa imong relasyon sa una kesa sa karon.
Naa ba kalahian o wala.

[P-Chan]

depende ra man tingali... if bitter or dili...

[letsee!]

Kinabuhi nimo kang EX vs. Kinabuhi nimo karon sa imong present.

Unsay ikasulti ninyong kalahian sa imong relasyon sa una kesa sa karon.
Naa ba kalahian o wala.

Naa.dako.sa una naay ka-relasyon, karon kay wala na... as in "All by Myself" hehe.

[beyee]

Back then, I was doing everything "right" just to be
accepted and welcomed by friends and the parents.
It was like living in a lie to put up a facade.

Now my life is a total far cry from what I used to be.
I found my voice and it mattered to him. The family
and friends welcomed me for what I really am -- not
just a girlfriend to him but as a person. I am more
secured with my thoughts because I am being heard.
And he simply showed me how a girlfriend should be
treated and how relationships work with two people
openly communicating with one another

[luff101]

Wala jud kalahian kay wala man say ex. ahahaha

[firestarter]

Kinabuhi nimo kang EX vs. Kinabuhi nimo karon sa imong present.

Unsay ikasulti ninyong kalahian sa imong relasyon sa una kesa sa karon.
Naa ba kalahian o wala.

I was a 100% jackass back then, karon mga 60 to 70% nalang.

[obelisk]

Paspas kaau ko maka tigom sauna. Karon, halos walay tinigom.

[Kricket]

mas living a life katong time nga naa pa si ex.

karon murag... routine na lang.

[volatile8]

Saona I have to keep my thoughts because they don't matter to him.

Kron all out ang true self kay i know my opinions og feelings matter to him.

[janwounded]

Hmmmm.. for my part, especially if the last relationship was positive, it is hard to truly live in the present relationship because you feel like it is dishonoring the good that came from your last love.... Rather than feel like you must completely disregard the lessons and love that were shared, it is better to recognize and value the good times that you had.... Love does not need to “go away” in order for you to commit to someone new..... For example, though I am deeply happy in my being single right now, I still appreciate the good times and lessons I learned with my past partner... Love for one does not have to “cancel out” love I once had for another....
On the other hand, it is not best to dwell while in a current relationship on the last one in an actively romantic way or by comparing and contrasting strengths.... This is not about being actively maintaining a love affair or keeping score between partners.... It is about allowing your past to fully exist as a part of yourself that informs and enriches your life as a whole..... ^_^

Just my 2 cents ^_^