A good friend turned lover.. what to do. <sigh>

[madz_makatigbas]

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Friendzone material..
I know that feel bro..

[Fern]

unsa inyu buhaton when you have this so-close friend that you are so comfortable being with. You know, the one you can joke around, hold hands, hug brotherly, talk about anything under the sun, check on each other daily, pinch on each other's faces--sort of a brother jud.. and suddenly.. asked you for a date. (meowk!)

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* lakaw ta inig 14 ha.
# friday nlang para dghan ta.
*kita rman duha.
# ha? ngano man? toweweng!
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-mao to. murag dili na friendly iya moves towards me the past days, sort of romantic na. napay text nga kung dili gani ko kareply, mag-luod².. tsk². wa jud ko ganahi.

akong problema:

-Di ko ganahan muprangka kay bcn ma-offend cya, mawad-an pa nuun kog suod nga migo. I respect him man gud, nya I value him jud as a friend. he's one of the guy friends nga super comfi jud kau ko.

-Di pud ko gnahan makig-date nia coz wala lang. I just dont feel like it. migo rajud ako tan-aw nia.. period! He's the funny guy type man gud. di ko kaimagine mag-date mi nya serious² ang dating ba. naah! hahahah
awkwardan na nuun kau ko motagad nia ron, or if tagad gani, cold na (though trying to keep it the usual way).

So what I do, whenever he reminds me gani of our so-called date.. (nga wala koi plano modaun), moana rako "ay cgeg binuang diha, gara² sad ka dah.. pangetag laing kabinuangan didto!".. nya mokatawa ra sad cya.. muana. "binuang man nuun."..

<sigh> I just hope whatever he feels would just die a normal death. Napressure ra sad guro c manoy kay hapit na ang v-day. haha! LOL

TS... basin bigaon tingale ka ug approach sa iung mga male friends.... mao nang they get the wrong idea

[PebblesandKisses]

TS... basin bigaon tingale ka ug approach sa iung mga male friends.... mao nang they get the wrong idea

Hahahaha. Basin cya ang bigaon. Pwede pud basin lovable lang jd ko. ��

[Fern]

Hahahaha. Basin cya ang bigaon. Pwede pud basin lovable lang jd ko. ��

most of the time men including me :P... always get the wrong idea especially if sweet as a friend ang baye.

especially if touchy touchy kaayu... nom nom

[PebblesandKisses]

most of the time men including me :P... always get the wrong idea especially if sweet as a friend ang baye.

especially if touchy touchy kaayu... nom nom

If you conclude that im touchy, thats assuming.
Now, if men get the wrong idea, dili na namo problema. Problema nas taw nga mabaw, or utok nga hugaw.

[PebblesandKisses]

Quick update. Dugaya na ani nga post oi. Karon pa sad ko kabalik. I miss istorya though.
Idk asa na cya, nilarga man gd ko. Just got back last week.. last time i heard about him was last yr naa na cya gf. so there. Hehe

[Fern]

If you conclude that im touchy, thats assuming.
Now, if men get the wrong idea, dili na namo problema. Problema nas taw nga mabaw, or utok nga hugaw.

im not saying your touchy2x.. what i mean by touchy is kanang "Close na ba tayu? syndrome"

it may not be your problem but at put some distance on the way we act. "be a professional human"

kamao makiramdam, and always be sensitive sa people... para kabaw ka when to act and dili ka ma misunderstood sa tao.

etiquette ba

[PebblesandKisses]

im not saying your touchy2x.. what i mean by touchy is kanang "Close na ba tayu? syndrome"

it may not be your problem but at put some distance on the way we act. "be a professional human"

kamao makiramdam, and always be sensitive sa people... para kabaw ka when to act and dili ka ma misunderstood sa tao.

etiquette ba

Now we're talking about etiquette. So for example ako ang naibog niya while we were friends, that means he gave me motives pud? Like nag.igat2 cya nko at some sort? Dili ba pwede nga at some point i found him nice and i want it to be more than friendship? Igat2 agad? Lol. Thats being judgemental.
Point 1- Dili tanang babaye sir pareha sa imong gi.huna2.
Point 2- Youre talking to the wrong person if you're discusing about etiquette and professionalism.

[Fern]

Now we're talking about etiquette. So for example ako ang naibog niya while we were friends, that means he gave me motives pud? Like nag.igat2 cya nko at some sort? Dili ba pwede nga at some point i found him nice and i want it to be more than friendship? Igat2 agad? Lol. Thats being judgemental.
Point 1- Dili tanang babaye sir pareha sa imong gi.huna2.
Point 2- Youre talking to the wrong person if you're discusing about etiquette and professionalism.

na tamaan ka dai ? daghana gyung gaga aning istorya.net oie

[PebblesandKisses]

na tamaan ka dai ? daghana gyung gaga aning istorya.net oie

Hahaha. Tawa nalang ko oi. Mao man kaha, edi wow! Hahaha.