a manwhore husband

[krakenhut]

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this has been happening for more than a year nga i have been earning money in "other" means aside from my regular job. i work as an IT staff in a BPO company, so dili gyud ingon nga in need kaau ko ug kwarta. what my wife doesnt know is i have been with a gay guy, worst is iya ning friend/classmate pag college...thats why naa miy connection duha. hes a branch head dire sa usa sa mga ilado nga banko sa cebu and he is very much discrete sa iyang sexuality. laki man siya ug lihok ug tingog, pero laki sab iya gusto.


it all started 1 yr+ ago na when i asked a favor sa iya financial, when my wife was admitted sa hospital kay naoperahan siya. i have also asked sa uban nako higala, pero he was the one who contributed more than i expected...as in na sulbad ako problema ato temporarily. i promised to him nga aside sa pagbayd nako sa utang, i will do a favor of his in return ig puhon2x. what i didnt expect is that ang gusto diay niya is something nga dili nako gusto. i decline it at first, but he gave me time to think about it.


to cut it short, i eventually i agreed to it. the initial experience was a painful one, but still i allowed it to happen. gibayaran man sab ko niya in return. everytime we do it, he pays me for it. ni balibad ko at first tungod sa kauwaw, pero he always insist. but honestly, im very much willing to take his money, siya bitaw ni offer dili ako.


from then on, medyo na suod na ming duha gamay, like mu hitch siya sa akong sakyanan kung naa koy lakwon despite nga naa siyay own car to drive. or he would call me if naka check in siya sa hotel or unsa. give and take ming duha. but we do very discretely, kay we both dont want to get caught.


we are both aware nga nakabenepisyo ming duha from this relationship, its a win-win situation...sa iya...to feed his desires, and sa ako is ang kwarta...thats the reason nga nagdugay gihapon ni among binuhatan.


what i fear is, basin ug masakpan unya mi kadugayan. i want to end it, but i have benefited something nga masayangan ko if mawala. sayang man sad kung buhian, wala bitay nawagtang sa akoa. diba?


would the thought of it matter to you? i honestly have no feelings for him, i do it para lang lawgan akong biga...and sa pamilya nako. and guy knows it too.



medyo lain lang gamay ang pamati ba nga unsay gihatag nimo sa imong pamilya kay gikan diay sa laing taw...and you earned it in a (lets say, immoral) nga paagi. i feel like a manwhore, kay i do it all for money, tabla ra kog GRO ug mga kolboi. haha...mas decente lang nuon ug dating.

[dbalagosa]

wow! mao na ako initial reaction.

Boss, why ga need man ka kwarta? sayop jud ni boss sa sinugdanan palang. if gasige ka short ug kwarta, change your spending lifestyle. basin siguro imo sweldo igo ra mubayad sa imo living lifestyle.

[rubadub89]

what i fear is, basin ug masakpan unya mi kadugayan. i want to end it, but i have benefited something nga masayangan ko if mawala. sayang man sad kung buhian, wala bitay nawagtang sa akoa. diba?

actually naa ang imong DIGNIDAD.


gusto ka muundang pero di ka fully committed into stopping it, i say stop it before anything gets worse like you might fall in love with him and eventually leave your family for this guy.

[alfalfa]

Diskarte nimo na TS. pero kung biga ug kwarta ang imo tuyo, pangita ug matrona part, unless ganahan ka ug laki pod!

[gian_101]

ngilngiga nmo TS. straight pa ka gyapon? sa akong pagsabot murag nag mention ka na dili kaau need nmo ang kwarta then why continue? and ask lang ko TS, unsa imong pasabot "do it para lang lawgan akong biga". la ko kasabot na word na lawgan.

[krakenhut]

actually naa ang imong DIGNIDAD.


gusto ka muundang pero di ka fully committed into stopping it, i say stop it before anything gets worse like you might fall in love with him and eventually leave your family for this guy.

dignigad is something i dont really mind about, frankly.
i may be constantly doing it with him, but i have never thouht of leaving my family over him. it would be stupid. and you know that too.

ngilngiga nmo TS. straight pa ka gyapon? sa akong pagsabot murag nag mention ka na dili kaau need nmo ang kwarta then why continue? and ask lang ko TS, unsa imong pasabot "do it para lang lawgan akong biga". la ko kasabot na word na lawgan.

if i were to describe it...it would be like, trabaho ra ni way personalay.

[z3robeLow]

wala bitay nawagtang sa akoa. diba?

ahhm, wala'y nawagtang but you're putting yourself in danger of GETTING a disease.
for now, you feel it's all GAIN. do something before you LOSE it all.
think of the law of averages.

[flanker]

Ok rana bro oi. Sa atong society lain na paminawon. But in developed countries normal rana.

[dbalagosa]

Ok rana bro oi. Sa atong society lain na paminawon. But in developed countries normal rana.

ang manwhore thing ang ok. ang situation nga minyo siya and wala kahibaw iya asawa mao ang dili.

[brackitz]

Nganu kahang laenan paman ka nga ang biga ug kwarta man diay imung giapas?

aw siguro sa bag-o pa laenan ka, pero sa kadugayan maanad raka ana ts...

para nako ok ra ning bisyoha kana kung single paka,ang naka apan lang kay naa

na man gud kay wife...pamilyado.

three words for you: tsk tsk tsk...