Originally Posted by
MT@EVEREST
nahadlok na nuon ko na ako ni gi post... kay basin nagbasa basa pud sha ani... mura obvious raba kung siya makabasa....
It's really all up to you i-accept ba nimo siya and if you can handle the fact that he will be tempted twice as much since he's attracted to both sexes and the possibility that he have had *** with guys before. He basically laid all his cards for you to see who he really is.
Love that is heard is different from love that is felt. He tells you he loves you but are you sure he really loves you more than a best friend or are his ways just that of a typical best friend? Or are you just challenged to change him? That you can make him straight? Sometimes we only see what we want to see. It is important for you to analyze things rationally.
Don't rush into things. I know that you really really like this guy but can you live with all the baggage he has with him?
PS.
I know a handful of very straight natured gay men. One is a lawyer and a also a son of a retired high ranking police officer. His partner, a doctor, a son of a military official. And you know what? They are both open to their families. Attends family reunions, birthdays, etc.
I myself is a son of a retired military official.