How do you control jealousy?

[bowee]

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the green eye monster called - Jealousy... hmmm..

How do you control this monster? open and transparent in all dealings..

selos or jealousy stems up from deep down secrets not being told from one partner to the other... mostly ang selos kay magsugod jud na when your not open to your past or to your present dealings... selos can be in any form.. selos from work/career or selos from an officemate who is given all the 'graces' by the boss himself...

But most likely, jealousy among lovers stems from the fact that the guy or the girl is not emotionally transparent to her or his partner. When somebody other than your girlfriend admires at you and say nice things at you... the least you can do is to tell your gf about it.. sure she may be a little bit 'jelly' but hey.. the sooner you tell her of something, the sooner she knows that you have some admirers.. and most importantly, you end your talk to your gf with the assurances that whatever happens.. even if the very beautiful girl would be on your midst.. your love would still be with her.. your gf..

again.. its all about assurances and being transparent and honest to one another.. They say jealousy in a relationship cannot be avoided at all.. Hell even married couples have their own demons of jealousy as well...

for me.. sometimes jealousy is akin to love... and it's what binds you together... when your partner is jealous about a girl you talk in the office... that signifies the fact that your partner loves you most and is concern for all the care in the world...

heart to heart assurance and being steadfast and committed to your love lang ang katapat ana pre...

[prestige]

Only trust can control jealousy..

[-= Viruz =-]

sorry to break it to you ha,
don't wanna rain on your parade but
if you let your jealousy and insecurities
rule over your mind and emotions, it's
not love anymore... it's more like OBSESSION
and this isn't healthy for you both...

so hinay2x lang okies?

tumpak!!! hehehehe super agree! same here... dli sad jud ko gnhan mag cge mi away sa wlay hinundan ug sa puro baseless nga huna2x... sorrrryyyyyyyy

[-= Viruz =-]

as beautiful as she is smart and intelligent..

very beautiful..and sexy

she attended a wedding recently..

she told me.. murag di katuohan nga siya akong uyab..

kay dili man ko gwapo..

insecurities... that is what is eating you up... you lack confidence... maski unsa pa ka lig.on inyong trust to each other... dli mo matter ky ikaw mismo wla salig sa imong kaugalingon... i think dli ang pgka seloso imong pakgangon... kundi try to build a little confidence in yourself... wa epek ang trust sa relationship kung ang mismo foundation ani nga individual party involved dli lig.on....

ayaw huna2x.a nga dli ka gwapo... nga dli mo bagay nya... instead huna2x.a kung unsa imong maau nga mahatag nya out of love... that will make her think twice of letting you go... hehehe

[bUrbY_dUll]

to control jealousy,i bliv u will have to drop the I in a relationship..it should be the WE...dont think of urself...

[PseudoSurgeon]

Learn how to trust. Mawala ra nang jealousy kung naa lay salig.

[icon_king]

salig ra gyud na daugon

[darsmith13]

huna hunaa lang.. the world is bigger than the two of u..

d ka dapat selfish.. ayaw nang bawal2x.. just do ur part and take care of her, kung biyaan gihapon ka niya aw iya nanang disisyon.. u dont have control over her

matu-ok man siya anang imo style nga imo na siyang gihimo nga imong "world"..

that's one way to lose a girl

[mio]

Believe me, jealousy is a useless emotion.

[mc23]

mind your own business to cope with jealous