9 Simple Things Women Want

[hyori]

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1. Respect.Show us through your actions that you respect our opinions, careers, interests, friends, bodies, and minds. You don't have to agree with all that we say or do, but try to honor our opinions as valuable contributions. Follow the golden rule and treat us as you would like to be treated: Be honest, fair, kind, and considerate.

2. Romance. It's another night on the couch with takeout and TiVo? Just because we're staying in doesn't mean the evening can't be romantic. Light a few candles and see where the night leads. Treat us like your girlfriend, even after we become your wife. Date nights, physical affection in the car, kissing like when we first started dating -- all of the things that made us fall in love with you don't have to stop just because now there are bills to pay, a house to be cleaned, and kids to be bathed. Bring home flowers for no reason. We're not talking $100 bouquets of roses here. Even the $10 bouquets from the supermarket are enough to make us smile.

3. Time. We understand relationships can't be all wine and roses; simply making the time to be with us and treating us like your top priority says "love" more than all the fancy gifts and lovely letters ever could. This includes helping around the house. The realities of a 21st-century relationship are that both partners probably work. If you happen to get home before we do, why not vacuum the living room or throw in a load of laundry? If you take the garbage out without being asked, chances are you'll be getting a big ole smooch when you come back.

4. Dinner. Of the homemade variety. You may not be good at cooking and you may not know how to boil water. But greeting us at the door after a long day with fish sticks (or whatever you can wrastle up) makes us swoon, because it shows that you've been thinking about us and our hectic day.

5. Communication. Women are vocal creatures. We know you love us, but it's nice to hear you say it, too. We can also be insecure. We wish we weren't, but the reality is that we often notice our wobbly thighs and forget about our gorgeous eyes. So let us know when you think we're hot. Tell us we're beautiful. It helps us feel good. Words of appreciation aren't half-bad either. Tell us you love the lasagna we made. Notice that we cleaned the bathtub. It doesn't have to be over the top, just let us know that you see the effort we put in, and you're grateful.

6. Consistency. This doesn't mean be boring and predictable. It means that we know you will (usually -- no one is perfect!) give us the love and support we need. Knowing that you're coming at this with the same desires and energy as we are goes a long way to making us feel secure.

7. Engagement. Of the mental kind, not the "I'm getting married in the morning" kind. You don't have to like everything we like (we might be a little concerned if you do), but showing interest in our passions, be it career-related, a sport, or a hobby, goes a long way. Listen when we talk to you. We're not speaking just so we can hear our own voice; we want to connect with you and this is one valuable way we do this. This also means paying attention to the little things. Whether it's the name of your best friend's husband or the fact that you hate Nicolas Cage movies, it's the little things you remember about us that's so endearing.

8. Humor and Humility. These two tend to go hand in hand. This doesn't mean that you have to crack jokes or entertain us, but just being able to laugh at yourself is enough. Guys who take themselves too seriously bring everyone down.

9. Challenge. Not the kind that makes a relationship constant work, but the good kind that surprises and motivates us to do, be, or achieve what we desire. Studies show that partners who prod each other to meet goals -- in other words, don't support lazy or bad habits -- are ultimately happier than those who don't hold each other accountable.

[moklo]

Ayay..... ka simple,...nyahahhaa.....

[Judgement]

Oh, how bout money? c'mon we know how girls play smart these days.

[moklo]

Oh, how bout money? c'mon we know how girls play smart these days.

Bro, ala ka kita asa ang money nabutang? hehehhee... naa sa time oh..... kung daghan imong time niya dako sad jud ka magasto... "Time is Money, MOney is Time" hhehehee.,....

[hyori]

Dili lang sa TIME naa ang MONEY.. dili man jud na mawala ng butanga ...

[Mr. BrokenHearted]

now i know thanks TS for the tips you have nakasabot nako why ingani na lang ko permi ginarejected sa mga babaye maayo ra man jud siguro ko sa pagsugod pero sa kadugayan na wala na malain man ang babaye nako eyys hahayzzz pagkapaet jud

[Mr. BrokenHearted]

Oh, how bout money? c'mon we know how girls play smart these days.

not all gurls man siguro bro nga ang gurls money ray giapas anah lang na siya if you think nga gipangkwartahan ra ka you better stop it mintras sayo pa ayaw padugaya kay basin in the end magmahay ra ka natural ra man siguro na ang laki juy mogasto sa babaye pero dili lang permihon nahan ka bro nga ang gurl mogasto nimo?? maayo ba na tan-awon??

[ain]

Oh, how bout money? c'mon we know how girls play smart these days.

EXCUSE ME!!! u dont have to generalized everythinhg coz not all WOMAN (US) has the same wants and needs, and has the same intentions... DONT BE TOO HARSH Boy...! WAtch ur Languiage and words... Not impressive though! Oughhhhhh!

MONEY is indeed important. But We only want it in a proper way... Not by intention. ITs part of our lives... and alwys be a part until we are in our last breath..

SO, Woman needs more comfort and passion...

[hyori]

EXCUSE ME!!! u dont have to generalized everythinhg coz not all WOMAN (US) has the same wants and needs, and has the same intentions... DONT BE TOO HARSH Boy...! WAtch ur Languiage and words... Not impressive though! Oughhhhhh!

MONEY is indeed important. But We only want it in a proper way... Not by intention. ITs part of our lives... and alwys be a part until we are in our last breath..

SO, Woman needs more comfort and passion...

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naa lang jud pod mga tawo ingon ana!!

[ain]

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naa lang jud pod mga tawo ingon ana!!

Correct sis.. naa jud nuon mga babae ingon ani,. pero as ive said, not all... kay naa mansay datu na babae.. so vice versa lang na xa... ag lalake sad ang mo play sa games.. hahaaahaha...