HELP: how come i don't feel it?

[wanderingsoul]

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Of course, in the past, my exes and I had this "can't-wait-to-take-off-your-clothes" sort of thing and it makes it even more fun in bed until the last finish where the problem starts to kick in.

So far, I'm having problems getting serious with anyone right now because of the dilemma. I may be all whining and worried about the whole thing but can't help feeling afraid that I might BE THE PROBLEM and not them. That's why I'm biding my time to have the RIGHT PERSON to be with who will take away all my silly worries. And I know it's going to be a BIG PRESSURE on my guy for sure.

Let's just see.

[disenchanted]

i know the feeling dude! it was Like Self-fullfillment

exactly, bro.. even if kapuy na to the point when u go home maka piyung na gyud ka mag drive, at least its all worth it knowing your partner had a great time.. she thanks you for it and loves you more for making her reach the heavens and the stars..

[disenchanted]

Of course, in the past, my exes and I had this "can't-wait-to-take-off-your-clothes" sort of thing and it makes it even more fun in bed until the last finish where the problem starts to kick in.

So far, I'm having problems getting serious with anyone right now because of the dilemma. I may be all whining and worried about the whole thing but can't help feeling afraid that I might BE THE PROBLEM and not them. That's why I'm biding my time to have the RIGHT PERSON to be with who will give me unfounded worries. And I know it's going to be a BIG PRESSURE on my guy for sure.

Let's just see.

sis, try consulting a s*x therapist.. i dunno if naa ni exist ana nganhi sa cebu..

[wanderingsoul]

Good for you fern and disenchanted.

*** therapist? I have no idea if we do have one here.

[GuyOfYourDreams]

We tried all means but nothing to a point that I sometimes fake it. Does this mean men don't satisfy me?

how do you fake it? sometimes mailhan raba na..

literally speaking the percentage of women who can have orgasm during penetration is very small.
Most women would require playing with clit or by just caressing the lips of it by hand to stimulate and activate its senses resulting to orgasm. hihi

[disenchanted]

ok ra na, sis.. ayaw lang pa pressure and dont let it sink in to your mind after doing the deed. you'll get there soon..

[DigiBoy]

my two cents:

foreplay - very important.
respect - dont be greedy, show respect sa partner nimo, ayaw pag una una ug pagawas even though di na gyud ma take. you need to ask if both of you can cum together. would feel great that way.
teasing - tease to the extent na your partner would say i cant take it anymore. do it nahhh...
variety - try different positions, make up stories, try it anywhere...

maybe you could try watching adult movies and see what you wana try...or what makes your V wet...( in case it does gets wet )... then try it.. of course let your partner know what imu gusto i achieve.

[Fern]

GRabeh kaayu si Asia Agcaolli nga theraphist.

way pili lalake man o babae.. @_@ she gives me chills becuase:

Asia: Eroticness
Fern: Pervertness

[Fern]

Of course, in the past, my exes and I had this "can't-wait-to-take-off-your-clothes" sort of thing and it makes it even more fun in bed until the last finish where the problem starts to kick in.

So far, I'm having problems getting serious with anyone right now because of the dilemma. I may be all whining and worried about the whole thing but can't help feeling afraid that I might BE THE PROBLEM and not them. That's why I'm biding my time to have the RIGHT PERSON to be with who will take away all my silly worries. And I know it's going to be a BIG PRESSURE on my guy for sure.

Let's just see.

@TS .... if naa ka current partner karon.. just let him know what turns you on. it may sound awkward. but thats how my girl educated me.. and i also tell her waht turns me on.

she got shocked that i was like a little pervert.. but she tried her best to handle my nasty mind.

basin naa lang kay gusto ipabuhat sa imung BF sa imu nga ma uwaw lang ka mu sulti kay basin its too taboo or etc.

[wanderingsoul]

my two cents:

foreplay - very important.
respect - dont be greedy, show respect sa partner nimo, ayaw pag una una ug pagawas even though di na gyud ma take. you need to ask if both of you can cum together. would feel great that way.
teasing - tease to the extent na your partner would say i cant take it anymore. do it nahhh...
variety - try different positions, make up stories, try it anywhere...

maybe you could try watching adult movies and see what you wana try...or what makes your V wet...( in case it does gets wet )... then try it.. of course let your partner know what imu gusto i achieve.

I appreciate this. Thank you bro.

Yeah, you guys are right about stimulation and stuffs. We can have all the best moves in bed but the main concern here is can we pull these off with flying colors. That's why the ideology behind guys watching porn end up being so miserable right after their sessions are found true because they are frustrated for not doing it with their partners like what they've seen in the movies.

Same goes with all the suggestions here, they're all so good but what if it's the real scenario na?