for single ladies: don't you think its unfair?

[cassandra_cutie]

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Hi,

I'd like to ask insights from single ladies na almost 30yrs old na and not yet taken...

Gals, don't you think its unfair na when a guy reached his maturity state and like to get married,
he can easily find a woman and be serious to her and do their best to get married with her?
While kita, we'll wait for the guy to court us or be committed with us?

Though it doesn't really mean that we need a partner just to be happy but why is it
difficult to find a guy who's ready to commit for a relationship nowadays?

As for me, I am almost 29yrs old na and its been years we broke up with my ex-bf.
After that, I never seen a guy na serious gyud, puros ra magbinuang....
Also I noticed, most guys look around for young faces gyud....

[flanker]

Mao jud ni problema sa ladies basta edaran...

Gurls should not wait nowadays.. Go hunting sad mo oi.. before its too late..
bcin dli namo ka sakay sa last trip

[beyee]

it's all in the state of mind i guess... what i've read somewhere is that if you allow urselves to think that u are not that desirable enough for the market coz ur pushing 30 then of course ur giving off negative vibes to the guys out there.. so it's advisable to have that positive disposition so you can draw other guys to u...

at this day and age, wait-and-bleed is no longer feasible in the dating scene for girls, you should be outgoing and make urselves look fun rather than moping... after reading the tips, nakaingon jud ko, sakto pod ang writer ato coz everything starts within us...

[Tirong-say]

be sociable, try to meet people, be in the crowd, I'm sure there is somebody there looking for that special someone like you.
it is quite rude to say but this my analogy of the subject at hand "to be marketable one should advertise one's self"....

[cassandra_cutie]

it's all in the state of mind i guess... what i've read somewhere is that if you allow urselves to think that u are not that desirable enough for the market coz ur pushing 30 then of course ur giving off negative vibes to the guys out there.. so it's advisable to have that positive disposition so you can draw other guys to u...

at this day and age, wait-and-bleed is no longer feasible in the dating scene for girls, you should be outgoing and make urselves look fun rather than moping... after reading the tips, nakaingon jud ko, sakto pod ang writer ato coz everything starts within us...

bitaw sis sakto jud ka...there are times man pud gud na makapadown labi na you really want to go out but wala na kay kauban mosuroy-suroy coz all you're friends either minyo na or naa uyab...
then makalagot pa jud ang comment sa uban na, lain kono tan-awon ang babae magkiat2x na edaran na...klaro daw kaau ang tuyo kay maghunting....

[monrose29]

for me deli man cguro unfair, naka timing lang gyud ka og guy nga nga kusog mag binuang. or maybe ga binuang ra sila but if you want to know more about that guy na-a pod syay time nga serious, mura ba at first abi nato chick boi.. hambugero, bakakon, kay ma o na ato nakita niya pero tarong man diay kong maka kita pod og tarong nga babaye...

kami sad diay mga guy deli man ingon nga dali ra me maka kita og girl nga kong gusto na me mo settle, lisud oi then kahibaw pa gyud mo mga girls nga lisud ka ayo sabton inyo kina iya.. na-ay daghan lagi pero ang problema kong magka sinabot ba.....

[maitoots]

tngalig after the break up you shut urself to the world sad mao wla nka nkakita ug good guys. sometimes it's ok to flirt around basta carry lang sad nmo and dli lang pd palabi an. yes quite unfair jud kay because of the culture the way our family brought us up.. dli man gud ta pwede manguyab. pero cguro pwede na oi kay modern nman ang panahon.. to all the girls out there... heheh go go hunting pd jud.. sakto jud to ka sis flanker

[monrose29]

hahahaha ka nice anang panguyaban ta og babaye oi......

[maitoots]

^^nahan sa mo duh... nice man ang feeling nga panguyaban gud.. so tngali ang mga laki gnahan pd panguyaban heheh nowadays dli nman tngali unfair, basta liberated and open minded lang ka, ok ra guro manguyab sa guy basta naa lang limitations pd..

[monrose29]

ok raman cguro na..pero not to the point pod nga murag sad laki manguyab hahaha... waaaaaa di ko ka imagine.. mo diskarte ang babaye sa lalaki...

enough na cguro nah let him know nga you like him and depende nalang nah sa guy if mo take advantage sya nimo hahahaha..