TOXIC LOVE

[ichigo]

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Toxic Love
How do you tell if it's a toxic love relationship that you are involved in? If it makes you sick - emotionally, mentally and then physically, you are involved in toxic love with a person whom you are allowing to harm you.

The love of God sustains, supports, gives, puts the other person first, puts the other person's interests above its own and is offered and give out of fullness, out of that life of God on the inside.

Toxic love says, Please, please love me. Please be to me what I need. Please fill this empty place in me. And that can never happen because nothing can ever fill that empty place except the love of God. NO human being has what it takes to satisfy your hunger for love. God created that hunger for himself.

God's love says, I have so much, I am so full I want to share it with you. God is moving me to pour out some of His fullness out of myself into you.

One of the easiest ways in which people become involved in a toxic love relationship is with an addict or an alcoholic or with someone else who cannot have a healthy relationship because they are consumed by a need for what they are addicted to. To these people, while they can be deceitfully charming, other human beings are of little worth. They are to be used and when they lose their usefulness, they are expendable. If you get into a relationship with one of these people, you are setting yourself up for heartache and hurt because they are totally consumed with themselves and what they want and need. And they will draw you into their illness through toxic love.

In contrast, the love of God says to these people, "I will pray for you and I will give you the same choice God gives you - to make your own decisions and your own choices about your life and to suffer the consequences. But I will not sacrifice to you my life, my mind, my emotions, or my body. These belong to God. I will use them as He tells me to. I will fulfill His plan in my life and I will keep my mind and my emotions clear and calm so that I can hear him when he speaks to me.

God has something for me to do. I have decided I will follow Him. I will not be torn apart by my emotions. I will have His peace and his joy. And if I don't have His peace and His joy, but turmoil and tumult on the inside, then I know I have missed it. I know I have fallen into idolatry, a sin that seeks fulfillment in another person rather than in God.

Pray for people, correct people if you can, steer them in the right path, sow the seed of God's Word, and let them make their own decisions. Don't tie yourself up emotionally to people who will only destroy you. If they will not do right, let them go. Allow them to make their own choices about how they will live their lives.

A healthy love relationship will always affirm you and build you up. It will move you in a positive direction toward God's plan and purpose for your life. You'll be blessed because of this relationship, not cursed. You'll be warm and safe, not fearful and constantly on an emotional roller coaster.

[xmen]

Toxic Love
How do you tell if it's a toxic love relationship that you are involved in? If it makes you sick - emotionally, mentally and then physically, you are involved in toxic love with a person whom you are allowing to harm you.

Before loving someone you should love and respect first yourself. This is the common case happening in the field of love now, like on the case of the heiress Paris Hilton and the popular Ms. Kris Aquino, they loved more than what they can afford to give without any self-reservations. They were blind, mute and deaf in the name of love. And one of the mere facts is they’re lack of attention, affection and support from their immediate family itself that’s why they’re longing and begging this from the outside world. “Please, please love me. Please be to me what I need. Please fill this empty place in me” and this phrase exactly explains to it.
Only GOD can give us the unconditional LOVE

[pnk_shadows]

it's toxic love if you get addicted to doing things you shouldnt do for him/her...when u repeatedly make mistakes you condemned early on and lose your dignity and self-respect in the process---that's toxic love...

[Velvet]

i make myself sick. meaning i am toxic. so he's better off without me. matakdan unya siya.

sorry guys.. drama.

[roselyn]

palayon nalang ko...hheheeh

[frenchfries]

spirit of love that intoxicate me,murag dli jud lalim ma hang over ay.ahehehe
butok ang feeling if makaligo naka ky mahuwasan nman ka.