How to mend a broken heart after ka na mabdosan?

[ebickelodeon]

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hahahahaa. ipa tahi na balik adto ni nang miling ky ipiktibo kaau to nga sastre.

[beyee]

If I am in your shoes, sis...

It's normal to wallow in pain because
the jerk chose a perfect time to ditch
me now that I'm having a baby.

However I won't allow myself to be in
that position because it would hurt my
baby in the long run. The little blessing
may still be in my womb but that doesn't
mean he/she is spared from the heartaches
I'm dealing with... As a mother, I have to
nourish him with love and care and of course
with happy thoughts.

I'd be an irresponsible Mom if I don't take care
of myself while having him/her. If the jerk doesn't
want to have anything to do with me and the baby,
screw him and his puny balls.

[sushikandi]

First of all you need to eat and be healthy for the baby, remember it is your baby's life who is at stake here. Second, I know how you feel, I recently gone through what you are going through actually same time. But mine is different because it went physical to the point I had to call 911 for domestic violence. What I would advice you is talk to your friends and family. My parents helped me keep me sane, my friends boosted my ego. One thing I realized is you dont need a guy to complete you, you have to be independent and be strong for you unborn child. PM me if you need someone to talk to. Good luck. Life is beautiful.

[reyscott1968]

be happy... you now have a kid.. everyone wants that...

[jelousofthe1]

maka get over ra nya ka ana TS.. been there, done that .. e divert imong attention..ayaw cgeg huna2x anang lakiha ... focus sa imong baby ... mao na na imong priority karon ..

[quirkychinita]

I know its not easy to forget the guy specially with the fact na gibinlan pajud ka niya ug isa ka parting gift... that baby inside you.

I do know pud na depession isnt good fo the baby, now dont you ever think of giving that baby away or anything.

Its not the child\s fault, unhan na lang tika daan.

No matte how painful it is, do move on. It may take long but you will move on.

You will survive those nights na cge kag check saimung phone if he texted you or maybe tried miscalling you or anything.
You will survive the moment na you've erased his contact numbers but still tempted ka mucontact ug mangita niya bisan erased na iyang numbe kay namemorize naman nimu.
You will survive those moments na feeling nimu nabuang naka kay malingaw ka one time na i=cheer up ka saimung friends pero muhilak kag kalit if wala na sila.
You will survive everything wui.

and just think na you're luckier than other people out there.

Ang uban naghikog, ang uban wala nakaya sailang utok ang stress that they ended up in a mental hospital, swimming in their own poo and pee (true story!) and I know one person na nilayat gikan third floor sa ayala sa CDO one afternoon.

And you'e lucky you get to have a baby. and uban desperado magkaanak they even have to dance in obando or carry a heavy cross evey holy week.

And always think of this... If ever you're still too young to get pregnant and people look down on you, tobaga sila ani "At least ako naburos at this age kay pasabot na dali ko nahalin kesa sa uban diha na naabtan nag siyam siyam, wa pa gyud tawn!"

And dont ever think na you're ugly busa ka gibulagan or anything. You may feel ugly, basically tanan babaye mabulagan or makigbulag feeling nila bati na silag nawng.

Just take your time and slowly pick up the pieces and learn from the lesson.

Learn who to trust.

Most of all, never lose the confidence.

Kaya mo yan!

Oh! raise the baby like you're never ever gonna have one again.

Good Vibes!

[Scott Bernard]

Mo apil ka ug Christian organizations TS. Para maka kuha ka ug meaning sa imong life.

[tee_dee]

TS, way sama kasakit imong naagian karon. hilak lang. pero like sa tanang situation sa kinabuhi, ang imo rajud choice is mupadayon sa imong life. hinay hinaya na nga tantangon sa imong huna huna ang imong failure, and think about the baby most. life is making sacrifices. and one sacrifice is prioritizing others, not yourself. and in your case, prioritize the baby, iyang health og kaugmaon. wa tawn nay sah.

ngita ka solid support group like family and reliable friends, and seek God above all. pray hard like you've never done before. there's no way but up for you TS. salig lang jud ni God.

[sammedriano]

You can't mend a broken heart. It heals itself.

Chill lang sis. All you gotta do is think of your baby inside. You don't want to cause illness to your baby, do you? Then stop crying like a baby, coz you are about to have one.

Reality sucks big time, sis. I know that. But, it will suck badly even more if you there'll be something wrong with the baby when it comes out. Trust me, I've seen a lot of regretful mom's because they were not happy while they bear their child.

Let him go, and you start moving on as well. Sorry, I am too straight, but I just want you to know the reality of life.

[Seth Law]

It depends from person to person eh. As for me time heals mine.