Converting from being a good boy to a bad boy

[crush_23]

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i rarely comment on threads like this, but man, JUST BE PRESENTABLE, BE YOURSELF and TAKE IT LIKE A MAN...

the more you're doing this, the more you're pushing away ladies out there, much more you're destroying yourself...sorry bH, but you are making yourself pathetic na jd bai, and girls don't like guys who whine like that...sure, u may have a lot of heartaches already, but don't go all hatin' to the girls who doesn't respond positively to your attraction towards them..na confuse nka to the point nga mag make over ka sa imong self para lang magustuhan, where's the fun in that? that's not even you anymore dba?

think about it bro, learn from your experiences..take a look at yourself also - deep inside( kung asa ka sayop, maybe inamiga ra jd to iyaha, namis-interpret ra nimu, etc...), and use those learnings para sunod, you will know what do and mas precise pa jd...

u might say nga "im just saying this coz akong image kay bad boy kay naa koy mga tattoos piercings, dating, kung unsa pa", but do u know how did i win my wife's (crush_23) heart? it's simply because of two things, 1) a very good sense of humor that really worked on her - it's almost like having a brand new joke for her to laugh at everyday bisan recycled na kau ang kasagaran, and 2) im a good conversationalist and a very good listener - we discuss things that really is really worth discussing, and when she talks, i listen to what she says and made sure i have something to say about it...when we had our first date, i made sure that i will look presentable enough for her not to be intimidated or scared(heehee), wore polo shirt that will hide my tattoos, and prepared my brain for a good topic to share...and it worked...

im not saying this to put you down or brag myself, but because I FEEL YOU bro, i experienced what you experienced way back when i was younger, and i learned that it's not always the image, money, cars that win girls (kung mao man gani na, then she's no good for you) but in order to get serious girls that will really take you for who you are, you gotta be yourself...work on your attitude a bit cguro and for sure, some girl/s out there would really dig you...

Don't focus too much on what to change in you, esp imo image para lang matagad ka, instead focus on how to make the lady you like comfortable when you're with her...maskin pa cguro ug imong nawng Bentong pre, but if kahibaw lang jd ka maminaw ug magpalingaw sa girl (conversation-wise), win-win situation jd na para nimu...it will surely leave a mark on their mind...

cheer up bro, it's not the end of the world...

im proud of this comment hihihi

ts: dili man issue ang pagkabuotan aneh bah...wla pa lang abot ang girl nga makapansin sa imong kabuotan, kagugihan ug tanang good things about nmu....u dont have to change yourself from being good to bad..wa man gali ka pansina good na ka samot na kung bad ka...heheheh be NATURAL...take it easy

[[Avenging PIRANHA]]

aku mn lagi, good boy mn ku, naka uyab mn lagi ku..

ikaw sitoy good boy ka? pagtzur eyys hahahahaha

[Tre]

desperado na kay ni c ts da hoy calling all single women or double pansina sad tawn ato amego oi tingali mag buhat nya na ug milagro na tagbaw jud mo mga girls mo sulod gani na sa comfortroom ninyo nya mag dala ug bomba hurot jud mo tanan hehehe just kidding ts..

bitaw hulat lang gud ts maabot ra jud na nimo ang right girl basta dli lang pud ka himilian ha coz everything has a right time..

[groundwork]

Goodboy or badboy basta imong nawng burag si chocolate di jud ka kauyab, joke

TS, maybe your problem is not on the inside its, you know, joke na sad.....

lamia ani imo woi

[phil8s]

bad boy kanang manghasi sa dalan dn manong ug away sa mga taw..

[JezzyCalm]

if you will do it lang para ma-angayan ka.. ayaw nlang.. u will be pretending.. as if ga-acting ka.. mas lisod na noon na.. basin musamot na dli ka ma-angayan.. ok?

[Crimson_Viper]

Goodboy or badboy basta imong nawng burag si chocolate di jud ka kauyab, joke

TS, maybe your problem is not on the inside its, you know, joke na sad.....

@BH, when ni natu pikhan, bro.? akung starting, saman.?

j/k

[psyche_08]

kanang 'buotan kaayu' kay kana man nang walay kaugalingong prinsipyo, opinyon, convictions, passion, advocacy, diskarte sa kinabuhi. so magsunod sunod ra siya sa uban. that's really boring. so the solution is to have those mentioned.

Brutally honest but I may have to agree.

I personally like the bad boy image but it’s a personal choice. I wouldn’t be dating someone who’s more emotional than me knowing that I can be apathetic at times. If that’s the case, then who would comfort who? Imagine a boyfriend being “emo” and the girl gets to be the crying shoulder all the time. Now that doesn’t sound right, does it?

Women always seek for someone who can relate to them. Someone who doesn’t dwell on problems for too long and someone who is open minded enough to keep up with them. A good sense of humor is always a plus. Someone who can give them a good laugh and multiple braingasms. Hell, it’s boring to date someone if you don’t have something of interest to talk about.

The fact of the matter is, it’s all about the attitude. If there’s something that needs change, start with your own perspective, stop with the self pity crap cuz it’s a major, major turn off, be open minded and apply everyone else’s advice instead of just reading them, consider other people’s comments may it be negative or positive and not take it violently. Start with your inner self instead of delving into a more complicated matter. If you say you are a good boy, then go deeper and ask yourself what makes a good boy. Just because you won’t/can’t start a fight makes you good. Could it be something else and not someone else?

[melvin1289]

Brutally honest but I may have to agree.

I personally like the bad boy image but it’s a personal choice. I wouldn’t be dating someone who’s more emotional than me knowing that I can be apathetic at times. If that’s the case, then who would comfort who? Imagine a boyfriend being “emo” and the girl gets to be the crying shoulder all the time. Now that doesn’t sound right, does it?

Women always seek for someone who can relate to them. Someone who doesn’t dwell on problems for too long and someone who is open minded enough to keep up with them. A good sense of humor is always a plus. Someone who can give them a good laugh and multiple braingasms. Hell, it’s boring to date someone if you don’t have something of interest to talk about.

The fact of the matter is, it’s all about the attitude. If there’s something that needs change, start with your own perspective, stop with the self pity crap cuz it’s a major, major turn off, be open minded and apply everyone else’s advice instead of just reading them, consider other people’s comments may it be negative or positive and not take it violently. Start with your inner self instead of delving into a more complicated matter. If you say you are a good boy, then go deeper and ask yourself what makes a good boy. Just because you won’t/can’t start a fight makes you good. Could it be something else and not someone else?

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Thats me.. LOL

[annerhexian]

BH, ur attitudes is the issue..
and some people may or may not understand it

mao dong, PADATU oi!!
yaw lagi pa emotional tantrums dira kay soo gay kaayu