Originally Posted by
blakrabit
I like being asked of I'm top or bottom. It means I'm not feminine to be automatically categorized as the one getting his ass' hole resized. LOL.
There are feminine gay guys who are top. But yeah, I get your point.
I don't care about being labeled as feminine or manly. I'm comfortable with who I am. Never had the need to assert my manliness. But whatever I do in the bedroom shouldn't be anybody's business. People ask this question so that they can categorize you. It's a form of stereotyping. And answering the question encourages this.