Ako answer TS: Do not give him the reason to leave you. Ana raman na. Sayun ra au spellingon ang lalake ang kaapan lang kita mga babaye mura kita ra pud maglisud2x.
One thing I have learned...do not suffocate them, let them be. Lalaki japon na, mgpakalalaki. Di man na malikayan maibog og laen, mgflirt2x og laen, text2x og laen...But lisud au lamyon if nagsiga na moha mata mao ang binuhatan...
I have asked my friends even the man in my life one common answer: kung ang lalake kaw ang uli-an nya, di ka ma alarm pero if di na ka ulion something is off.
Ako tana ko-a pud ekal...regarding ana yaha mga katext2x, kakita2x...told him na they are my competition ingun sya di li sila competition.. Unsa d-i ko unsa sila... main course daw ko, sila dessert...Ahaka lage. Nya busog naman sya sa main course di na sya mg-dessert.
Usa raman ako-a gi ask sa ako ekal, to tell me honestly kung makigkita sya sa babaye, og pakit-on ko sa yaha text og text sa mga babaye...Random checking sad ko ui, asta gud history sa calls...kay one time di naman madala sa gibati nako high blood to the max. Told him la ko naglagot nakigkita ka og laen or text, ako gikalagotan ngano wa ko nimo sulti-e. I'd rather have you tell me before it's happening than after it happened. At least kung makit-an man tamo di ko mgeskandalo kay kabalo ko kinsa na babaye moha ka estorya. I even saw the pix of the girls sa yaha fb asta name, I know all of them. Ana sya ka open nako.
Text2x pud sya kana palame ba luv u, mis u, etc...katawa lang ko...karon pasagdaan ra nako sya, sahay mo text sya yaha katext mo tan-aw ko unsa yaha text... Ana lang...
Basically, I am his best friend and lover. Di ko ganahan naay secrets gud...If naa ko kakita lalake I let him see meeting with the guy para sure jud ba la ko tinagu-an.
You know what's so unfair? Okay ra daw makigs** sya og laen kay no attachment but ako dili daw pwede. Wa daw mawala nya ako kuyaw daw. I told him na unfair kaau ikaw pwede, ako dili? Kuyawa gud ana. But I have learned once a guy found out ne cheat ila gf or wife, more or less buwag ang ending kita mga babaye? Forgive lang ta then mura ra wala. Unfair noh?
Ako? I have learned to give him space, if he want to explore, meet up with girls, I let him be. At least comfortable sya musulti nako unsa yaha gibuhat. Di man ko masuko I even asked what they do etc... Kay the more man gud nimo pug-ngan that's where adrenalin rush in, the thrill mo gara nuon mgbuhat nuon sa ingon.
Women will find my way a unorthodox, asta ako ig-agaw babaye sige ingon na buwagan daw? I told her na bisan pa 50 years ka minyo sa moha husband granting maminyo ka, there will always be that time within the marriage na ne cheat na sya. Dili man sya santos ako-a ekal, tawo mana sya.
Mura taas2x au ako gibutang da but I hope naa ka na learn TS... I remain who I am and I let him remain who he is. I don't change him to satisfy my expectation of what a perfect guy should be and he does not change me. Mao jud na apil sa package, naa man jud flaws ang tawo I accept every single bit of it coz that's what makes him human, that's what makes him a man. So far, work in progress mi duha.
