Long Distance Relationships

[yudaz]

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lisod najud ron panahona... daghan temptation

[JavieBoy]

statistically only 10% of LDR has happy ending..

[king1]

it did work out for me.still going strong for about two years na

as long as you have TRUST,UNDERSTANDING,PATIENCE,RESPECT and especially LOVE.

skype,txt,bbm,call are the main reasons why this relationship is still working

basta lng,you both find ways in sparking up your relationship para dili boring.

we still do the same routine,novena sa mother of perpetual help during wednesdays and novena for sto.nino inig friday

thru skype ,

we pray together and sleep together.bahala og maguba ang battery sa ako laptop.

i order flowers online para i surprise cya,i send her gifts.

as long as you have a strong foundation sa relationship and tights mo sa Ginoo.for sure okay ra tanan

[g_girl143]

Okay. This is an age old thread but still going.

My first relationship (first boyfriend jud!) is a long distance one. Our courtship happened online and ako pag answer was through the phone. We kept our communication lines open, calling each other 3 times a day, and constantly texting and updating each other either via phone or the internet. It was only after two months that we were in a relationship that we finally set eyes on each other.

After that, we met about once every two months, each visit well planned. After each visit (vice versa), we immediately plan the next one.

Statistically, if people are to be believed, long distance relationships have a slim chance of working. How much more kaha sa amu, na 7 years ang gap, and without any history whatsoever. He's a true blue Manileno fron Quezon City. I'm an Iliganon turned adopted daughter of Cebu.

Two years have passed and he's no longer my boyfriend. Because he is already my fiance

You see, when entering a long distance relationship, you have to meet the following:

1. Constant communication - like I said, me and my soon to be hubby call and text constantly. We call every morning, lunch, and before going to bed. We tell each other what our day is like, we share problems, etc.

2. Time - you need to set aside time for your significant other to keep the passion from dying away. It's best if you actually set a time

3. Maturity - you need to be mature enough to realize that LDR is not a game. It's not child's play. It's not even to be toyed with. LDR will drive you crazy if you're unable to handle the distance

4. Fidelity - I'm happy to say this is easy for both of us (don't ask why). To many other, especially kanang mga dali ra ayu matental, ayaw na lang mug sulod

5. Trust - this is hard for girls so trust your instincts gihapon.

6. Planned visits - you have to make sure na ma plan when mahuman ang inyo separation. You have to plan exactly when mo magkita and the activities you plan to do. This keeps you excited and believe me, every visit will be like the first.

7. Don't be swayed by cynics - When I first entered into this relationship, everyone told me it will never work. The same was true for my boyfriend. People tried to sway us from it, and look where we are now. So just stay strong.

8. Put God in your relationship - I need not elaborate In my case, we attend masses together, and text Pc B W U during the exchange of Peace, then we talk about the sermon....it's just like we attended mass together

9. Plan activities - We used to follow the Big Bang Theory together (we've lost interest na). Back then, we play the series together at the same time, while we're both on the phone. Then we talk about it. It was our Monday Night Big Bang Night. it helps if you have little online dates like these.

So there you have it. Just a few pieces of advice from me.

Remember that distance means so little when someone means so much.

Long distance relationships only work if both of you work together and both of you believe the other is worth fighting for.

Forgot to mention. I'm 27. So no, dili na ko bata :P

[hyori]

The worst thing about it is that you don't know whether they'll miss you or forget you..



>.<

[magnum357]

if seryoso mo, there's a way. i've had a long dis-rela pud. from SG-Cebu, so far, every sale sa cebupac or other airlines, buy dayon. either ako uli or bisita sya nako. it works especially if both are matured thinking. naay skype, ym, fb, ug uban pa. it tend to fail if huwa ang trust. be open jud with one another. naay seloso - naa pud selosa, pero if you respect one another - you tend to adjust jud for the sake of the relationship.

Works?? of course yes - mu-fail man gane ang ubang relasyon diha maskin pirmi magkita. it works for me - kay hapit nami pakasal. and yes, kay were both serious - nagpadestino ko pinas balik para duha mi mag atiman sa kasal. Trust each other, and most of all have fear and TRUST IN GOD. I always believe that a person who fears in GOD are trustworthy. Goodluck sa inyo relasyon TS.

[sarge]

prone to temptation. been there

[hyori]

But,


there is no long distance about love, it always finds a way to bring hearts together no matter how many miles there are between them.

[normax]

well, does it work or not? Is it worth a try? How do you stay positive when your involve with someone far away from you........

care to share an experience perhaps?....well only if u got one...

*sigh*....just wanna know...

ayaw namo ug long distance relationship ky lisod kau, ngita lang jud ka ug duol please lang...

[sarge]

they will find another arms to cuddle in your absence