Merged: Selos or Jealousy in Relationships

[chad_tukes]

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@TS: you're insecure. there's not a whole lot of difference with jealousy vs. insecurity. they go hand in hand.

[j_dan87]

trust ur bf lng jud mam...kai pra mo wrk in,u relatnship...pra di pd mo cge away...hehehe

[bahiista]

insecure ka the result to jelous......the prob is naa gyud nimo..

[jash_ville]

@TS

i post daw pic para maka idea sad mi gamay

[menderouv]

i agree. insecure lang ka mam

[the Messenger]

why do i always feel so jelous or am i just insecure? i admit, my boyfriend is kinda atractive, he tells me every single day that he loves me and he dsnt want to lose me, but why man nga magselos pko sa iyang mga friends nga girls? maglagot jud ko everytime manglaag cla or dungan cla eat sa iyang mga girlfriends... mao rna among awayan always until there comes a time na na fed up njud xa... we broke up but nagblik rasad mi.. i want to get rid of ths feeling... duolan man sad gud xa mga girls gud... and i cant blame him for that...

Hi, pyoung. I think insecurity leads to jealousy. I am a girl, and maybe I would feel the same especially if your bf still goes out and dines out with his girlfriends (without you) as frequently as he did when he was single. If once a year lang or once in a while, that's fine, but if regular jud like weekly or monthly, I'd be jealous also, especially if flirty ang iyang barkada.

One cause of insecurity is the anticipation that something romantic might result from the well-taken-care-of friendship.

Once we enter into a relationship man gud, we expect our dealings with our friends to change somewhat also. We make sacrifices and adjustments to accommodate the relationship.

[whim10]

ka relate si oks ani wui, women also can't be trusted,flirts are everywhere girl,watch out

[bawdogs]

i'm also a victim of this kind of behavior...it's hard to control this things...magbalikx2 gyud ni sa imong utok...naa daghan mga good advice diri sa storya how to control this behavior or basin na pod maka share ron...anyway...para nako lisod gyud na sya kong mao na imo na feel sa imo BF..usa ra gyud ang tanaw nako madaling solustion...imong BF kong mahal ka niya willing gyud na sya mosabot nimo...beside nag selos ka tungod mahal nimo sya...i hope imo BF mosabot or maka realize sya ana ug dili pod sya madala sa temptation sa uban girls...dili gyud ni kalikayan..its part or life na gyud...hmmm makes me really felt sad everytime i remember yesterday...

[r0mm3L]

ing.ani ako na experience sa ako past relationship. feeling nako wala nakoy right makigfriends sa ubang tao. wala koy pili sa friends, ma babae or lalaki. kong sa babae na gani mag selos, pasanginlan dayon ta nga ganahan ko niya, bisag dili. kong siya gani makigmingle ug lain tao boy or girl wala kaayo problema sa akoa kay salig man kaau ko niya. after that wala nako ka agwanta, buwag nami wala mi nag balik.

okay rana mag selos, but too much of it makes me give up.

[bawdogs]

ing.ani ako na experience sa ako past relationship. feeling nako wala nakoy right makigfriends sa ubang tao. wala koy pili sa friends, ma babae or lalaki. kong sa babae na gani mag selos, pasanginlan dayon ta nga ganahan ko niya, bisag dili. kong siya gani makigmingle ug lain tao boy or girl wala kaayo problema sa akoa kay salig man kaau ko niya. after that wala nako ka agwanta, buwag nami wala mi nag balik.

okay rana mag selos, but too much of it makes me give up.

yes! mao gyud ni epekto, tanan butang basta ma subrahan na dili na gyud maau...to much love will kill you mao ning story ni jesus christ....