who would you choose

[xiaomai]

well i have chosen mine..same situation w/u & i think in some areas lang.. i chose the longer one coz he has proved his worth already...although the relationship was boring na kay kulang sa xcitement, i know we can surpass any obstacles ahead of us. I can say this coz for four years never in man's time xa nakapasakit nko and i was right all along for choosing him coz after being with a guy for 3 months si number 2 it was very enjoyable , pinakahappy times, makabuhay patay nga feeling but never pud siya ni dupa nko if naa koy blema. He wasn't the guy who i can say i am assured & secured to be with..

its easy to fall gyud but to maintain it, is not...sooner or later if masakitan ka sa number 2 or katong bag o kay diha pa nimu ma realize ang worth atong dugay na nimu kay he was there for u in a long time na and has proven his worth.. IF you find ur relationship boring then just spice it up so dili na ma divert imu luv sa lain..thats what were trying to do right now... bow

[jowee-chan]

naa ra man jood nah nimo oie. maskin daghan pa mi ug ika-ingon nimo, imuha man ghapon nang desixon ang matuman. SIMPOL.

[lowel]

Just listen to your heart,,.....

[cris]

naa ra na nimo oi. attitude man na. bitaw basin magdugay na sad mo mag ingon na sad ka nga di na ka ganahan na sad.

[ladygreen]

hey guys, need your opinion,

who would you choose, ang katong dugay na mo, nya dili naka happy maikog lng ka mobiya,
kay kabalo ka na love kaayo ka niya, nya he done many things to you..
or

to the one who you know love kay nya love and happy pud ka niya though dili pa kaayo mo dugay nagkaela, hmmmmmm guys guys opinion please.....


thanks...

Gurl, basin ala ka naka-feel og spark sa inyo relationship with your bf...so meaning to say naa ka uyab then naa pod ka ka-fling??hmmm...if im in your shoes sis, id rather tell my bf the truth na dili naka happy with him or whatever reason na imu ma give at least u will not leave him hanging ba...then think twice...yaw padalus-dalus sis basin mag regret ka ba...think it over first...unfair man gud kaU sa imu bf...

[baning]

ill go for the person na happy ko... kay i know love man ko niya... dili kay mo stick ko sa isa ka relationship na dili nako productive..

[Clifford_2008]

moambak nalang ko sa bridge kung mao na imong mga choices.

[pankie101]

familiar lage ni nga sitwasyon aie??
hehehe...

daaaaaaah...whatever floats your boat..
just make sure...sure na sure...nga kanang imong bag-o ga-tinarong na the way sa karaan..
pwede baya nga di jud diay xa ingon ana ka seryoso..nya naka-himu na ka ug sacrifices...

[archferro]

i've got two words to say.
tested and unpredictable. ang tested na word- dinha mu fit imung current bf. he's there with you thru thick and thin. pero sa imung side-wala ka na happy niya.

unpredictable- your new fling. he's there just lately, trying to tease and test the waters. you're happy. but is it all there is? are you sure mao na jud na? clarity ang kinahanglan sa isa ka relationship.

in my personal opinion-
you might not fit in both. but be fair with your bf. if wala nai hope to revitalize the partnership, then tell him your inner most sentiments about your thoughts and feelings and kung asa padung ni inyo samahan. but don't emphasize nga naa kai lain. it questions your sincerity from a guy's point of view.
after you have told him this, maybe you need time to let time marinate all this conflicts of emotions so you can have clear head of what you should do next.

more importantly, don't go running to your "new guy" after breaking up with your bf. allow enough space in your life. more time to think.... para dili pressure ba. nice man pud kung istorya2x lang pud mo- or friendship stage. pero taman ra sad ana. for the meantime. you can be happy, pero think of what you should do para wala napud masakitan. murag cycle ra bitaw. after one relationship, jump napud lain. then another and another. remember- you should know where true happiness springs out. dili sa uban tao, kung dili sa imuha ra jud ni.

[babypaupau]

been there, done that...bag o lng jud


i guess its safer to stick to the one who loves you and who stuck with you for all these times kay kanang bag o ra nimo naka ila, you could be building your dreams around that person and find out na he is not willing to take the chance with you the way you would for him... its really sad and painstakingly heartbreaking but somehow you need to make the wise choice, or you'll be left alone.