Spouse is having a child with a 3rd party!

[xanne_818]

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let ur friend know na lng ..ingna sya straight and be direct she has the right to know

[carpe noctem*]

i was in a related dilemma b4. my friend was abroad then i saw her bf with another girl (who turns out third party jd) i didn't tell her to spare her feelings, thinking it's better she find out herself...but when she did find out, i confessed about what i knew..she was disappointed..i quote "Y man wa ko nimo sultii, if it was me in ur place, i would've told u."

sakit kau magmata'g morning thinking everything's a-ok when it's not..i know this is not the same situation but i'd just like to share..lesson learned. ü

[kenart]

my guy bestfriend has this affair with an ex (a highschool gf), his wife is my friend (of course she's my bestfriend's wife), his mistress is also a friend (we grew up together).

pagbuto sa balita, akoy gi-grill sa asawa kay wala jud daw ko kasulti. i know from the start man jud unta

if mabalik palang ang panahon, mosulti jud ko before nidako ang tanan. hahay

mao na, sultihi nang imong miga sa tinood, from there sya na mo-desisyon unsaon niya iyang bana

[jlodarl]

faeta sad ani oi.. lisod jud .. she's my friend it really hurts me too if I'll see my friend na na sakitan... hmmmm..

[journeyman]

Ok ra ba ang relationship nilang mag asawa? kahibaw man kaha siya nga naay kabit iyang bana, unsa man, sigi sila away tungod anang butanga? kay kung gipasagdan ra niya nga nangabit iyang bana, she's partly to be blamed sab.

[blueleigh25]

ayay.. ingna na lng sya.. it doesnt matter unsaon pg ingon.... ma hurt ra mn na sya gihapon.. much better na mahibaw an nya as soon as possible...or else..mulain iya boot nimo if makahibaw sya una....

[PazzieGirl]

Thats a tough one! Masbetter pa nga advice the husband to open that up to your friend... But if lisod jud, kay lisod naman sad gyud daan ang situation, tell your friend through a question mark... "What if naay lain anak imong husband sa lain? Ok lang ba?" But of course it surely is not ok... But at least murag hinay hinay ang disclosure... Kay if kaliton, nah kung ana musulong jud ko! heheheh! bitaw oi... advice her nlng dayon what's best to do... Ipa-calm lang sad sya... =)

[zer0_cooL]

aw kahibaw man diya ang wife na naa kabit iya bana so don't tell me wla na mi cross sa iya mind na magka anak cla?

since nabasa naman ka, kaligo nalang jud. tell your friend about it. just be there lang para nya.

and yes, only women ang makihaan ug adultery ang sa lalaki kay concubinage. unfair noh? hehhee

[see_rxe]

" The greatest sin of this generation is losing the sense of sins. "

- Pope Benedict XVI

[snussy]

aw kahibaw man diya ang wife na naa kabit iya bana so don't tell me wla na mi cross sa iya mind na magka anak cla?

since nabasa naman ka, kaligo nalang jud. tell your friend about it. just be there lang para nya.

and yes, only women ang makihaan ug adultery ang sa lalaki kay concubinage. unfair noh? hehhee

unfair kaayo..grabe.whoever made this is law is so stupid.