Getting Married or LIVE-IN sa?

[blackbutterfly74]

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mas better ang mag pakasal..para naay blessing ug for security purposes..para sa imung anak....

[mybabyfudgee]

test drive sa ang live in haha

[freesoul]

Living in is like Trial and Error. You test the waters first before you get in. Sometimes when you're in the water already, you found out that you don't know how to swim or the water is too hot or cold for you.

Getting Married is different. You must commit yourself first to learn how to swim because when you are already in the water you must have the determination to learn how to swim no matter how hot or cold it is.

Commitment and love are important in a relationship. What is lacking in Living in is a real commitment to be with eachother because you can easily get out when things dont go your way. The effort is not as solid as the effort you excert in marraige.

But getting Married for the wrong reasons, it just like Living-in. What is important that both of you Love eachother before you get married and commit to make things work for your relationship no matter what life brings.

[Maikeru]

I don't find any good reason nga magLive-in. Trial and error? mao bitaw naa gitawag og uyab2x/going-steady relationship kay pang trial and error stage mana. Anyways, can't blame those who do that. But getting married is better than live-in. If dili pamo ready anang minyo, dn pagUyab lang sa mo. Ngano gud tawn magLiveIn daun.

[freesoul]

I don't find any good reason nga magLive-in. Trial and error? mao bitaw naa gitawag og uyab2x/going-steady relationship kay pang trial and error stage mana. Anyways, can't blame those who do that. But getting married is better than live-in. If dili pamo ready anang minyo, dn pagUyab lang sa mo. Ngano gud tawn magLiveIn daun.

what i mean is trial and error Living in together. mura man og nagminyo ba, usa ka balay namo. Kung naa namo sa usa ka balay diha nimo makita ang tinood nindot or bati sa imo partner. Kung kaya ba nimo ma-accept and guide ang iyang weakness. Committed ba ka na kamo na gyud forever.

Sa uyab pa dili man gud nimo makita tanan sa imo partner because your both living in different homes.

Importante gyud ang Love before you get married. Living-in just makes it more complicated.

[jamzy]

i'l go jud sa marriage una.. kay if mag live-in lang mo, if ever naay dako nga pagsulay, dali ra mo give in ang usag-usa, while kon married namo... both of you will strive to get it through the trials... =just my opinion= ;D

[Bongoton]

In other cultures like America, wa man ni problema.. depende ra gyud na sa mindset sa tawo

Mo agree ko ni freesoul sa iyang opinion

[tangadsangig]

mas nindot jud ang marriage kay naay blessing ni Lord

[maddox_pitt]

marriage...take it or leave it

[ieskna]

mas nice if naa jd mo blessing..
youll be proud to call him/her your better half...
lisud maglive-in..kawat2..eheheh