breaks my heart

[yvonne6]

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^^lagi bro. i allow my son to talk with his dad man over the phone maski we are not in good terms. daku jud kaau ug sala akong ex namo. ang sa ako, its fine. i have moved on. pero ang anak, anak man jud na forever. its been 6 months unya akong anak ga separation anxiety lang gihapon. mahadlok siya nga kung molakaw ko, basig dili nako mobalik. mag sige lang jud siyag ingon, dont go to work, dito ka lang sa bahay. dili man puede nga dili ko mo work kay ang iyang dad is not supporting as well. dawat naman nako bahalag wala siya financially pero ang emotional needs sa bata, mao na lang unta ang iyang atimanon, pero wala man gihapon. im just doing my best as a mom. paet kaau oi. usahay, 2 hours pako nakatulog kay grave yard shift man ko, maka dungog gani ko nga mo ingon akong anak, wala akong kasama, mag tanaw raman siyag tv usahay, iya usa ka kuya, naa sa school, ang 2 ga work, so usahay kami rang 2 sa balay but matulog ko ug adlaw, pero nimata jud ko para lang ako siyang ubanan.

[jerlz]

lisoda ani oi ug imung ex wa jud care..

[yvonne6]

few days ago, i found a way to get in touch with my ex through sms. we texted back and forth and talked about our son and i initiated it. i didnt mind at all because it was for my son anyways but few days have passed and i heard nothing again.maski man lang once a day mo text, musta na ang bata would give me and my son the impression that he is thinking about the kid. dili jud unta right nga kami ang mo contact niya if he really cares about his son. i just cant teach the kid to forget his dad and tell him that his dad does not care. my son will be devastated. sakit kaau na para sa bata. hahayz

[pinoy]

im sorry TS wheww kahilakon ko kay naka relate ko ani ahaks.... na separate sad ko karun sa akong wife with my 2 kids..... pero di jud ko katug if dili ko mo text nga mangumusta nila and make sure magkakita mi every week.... pero sa imohang situation lisura ana oi... looy sad mga bata.

just to clear hehe wala koy GF LOL and never sad ko nangita LOL

[yvonne6]

^^thanks for sharing bro. i know luoy ang bata but somehow looking at the brighter side, mas suerte lang gihapon akong anak kay naa ko nga willing mo sacrifice sa tanan para niya, para sa akong mga kids. ang uban bata diha, both parents jud walay kuwenta. i am not hoping mabag o akong ex. he is a hopeless case. he has a gf now for about 8 months and i really doubt ug mag dugay na sila kay gapabuhi raman siya sa babay and the girl's family dont like him. he just texted me, "wala man koy paki sa family sad niya" referring to his girl's family. loser kaau tawhana. how could you not care unsay isulti sa family sa girl? if u care for someone, that includes her family kay eventually, part nasad ka nila. ay ambot, he cant even take care of his son and himself, how much more others. messed up kaau tawhana. i cant believe how he has become, dili mana siya ingon ana niadto. nadaut sa barkada ug bisyo gud. anyways, life goes on for us

[quiboy]

mao jd luoya pd sa bata uip,,

[pohpay]

kaluoy sa baby

[saulrhyz]

I'm a single dad and ako mismo ni-insist na bisag buwag nami sa mom sa akong princess, we will have to be mature people and raise our daughter the best way we can.

if your son's dad is not willing to be a mature parent, then don't force it.
break your son's heart one last time and tell him the whole truth.
i know this is not the answer you want to hear, but this is a solution none the less.
kausa ang sakit, then from there start fresh and show him his love is complete even if coming from one parent.

[lovelygirl]

luoy sad sa imong anak TS oi..kinsa ng naa sa avatar pic TS? mao na iyang daddy?

[yvonne6]

^^no. thats not his dad. pinoy ang dad sa akong youngest. he is now with another woman who also left a 2 year old son behind so she can live with my ex. i have not introduced this new guy to my son. wala pakoy plano.