margin of hospitality to kicking out your abusive guests/relatives

[lumadz]

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well kung can afford sila then samot nga plus nga mosulti ka niya. Just to make my post clear bro. Ayaw pahawaa ang imong tiyo and tiya. Maski pag dato na silang duha no reason not to be hospitable since paryenti na nimo. But i see no reason nganung naa imung cousin and her 2 daughters. I suggest i confront na imung cousin, tell her nga you and your mom are in a bad time. And that you can only afford letting your uncle and aunt live in the house. Paet jud bitaw ng ingun ana bro labi na dili kabaw manglimpyo.

lamat sa mga reply, guess mao dyd ni mau buhaton, bug-at lng huna-hunaon ba pra sa akng mom. well mora ok raman niya, matun ra niya, pugos nlng sad kog tun. palaba gyud apil bai..hehe

[ditch_azeroth]

well kung can afford sila then samot nga plus nga mosulti ka niya. Just to make my post clear bro. Ayaw pahawaa ang imong tiyo and tiya. Maski pag dato na silang duha no reason not to be hospitable since paryenti na nimo. But i see no reason nganung naa imung cousin and her 2 daughters. I suggest i confront na imung cousin, tell her nga you and your mom are in a bad time. And that you can only afford letting your uncle and aunt live in the house. Paet jud bitaw ng ingun ana bro labi na dili kabaw manglimpyo.

that is a good approach. but if i were to offer a different option, let me describe the situation for you first - it is your mom that is giving them the illusion of power. sure, you can always tell them off, but it would be nothing compared to your mom doing the dirty deed. your mom is reluctant to kick them out because magulang lagi na niya imong tiya, but believe me, she is thinking about it already. all you need to do is fuel the fire that is, most likely, already burning and she'll get to the point nga ma puno na sad cya just like you.

but since ang cousin gyud ang issue, i think @ironmack08 is right. ka wala say pu-angod anang ig.agawa woie, no offense.

[brian joshua]

hahaha grabe, asta paglaba mn sd

[SioDenz]

kini bitaw sobra ta ka buotan sa uban bah, abusaran jud, sayun sayunun lang ta nila kay nagtuo nga OK ra natu.

Mas maayu pa lagi mag inistriskto ka nila gamay kay maikog pa.

[lumadz]

that is a good approach. but if i were to offer a different option, let me describe the situation for you first - it is your mom that is giving them the illusion of power. sure, you can always tell them off, but it would be nothing compared to your mom doing the dirty deed. your mom is reluctant to kick them out because magulang lagi na niya imong tiya, but believe me, she is thinking about it already. all you need to do is fuel the fire that is, most likely, already burning and she'll get to the point nga ma puno na sad cya just like you.

but since ang cousin gyud ang issue, i think @ironmack08 is right. ka wala say pu-angod anang ig.agawa woie, no offense.

non-taken bai, salamat. lgi if wicked2 lng gyud sus naa sad tay gmay naughty nga mga moves, worry lng ko akng mom bsin cya sad ma upset nko, diniyos ra gyud iyaha, way mahims ang tawo.hehe

[lumadz]

naa moy baygon? sprayhi dayun bro

duda ko bai di kadot baygon. hehe genetically immune gyud. formulate gud specially ani ang bayer para ani unique nga pest.

[lumadz]

kini bitaw sobra ta ka buotan sa uban bah, abusaran jud, sayun sayunun lang ta nila kay nagtuo nga OK ra natu.

Mas maayu pa lagi mag inistriskto ka nila gamay kay maikog pa.

lgi, lawgawa dyud oi...

[lumadz]

post sad to uban dha nga naay same nga experince, insight sad ba bisan dili gyud involved ug relatives, puede sad friends. naa man gyud ingn ani nga case almost everywhere nga nay relationship

utong lng o prangka na gyud? unsa ang enough is enough?

[brackitz]

Sige na man mi ani sauna, natural raman ni..usahay maagwanta raman pud, usahay dili na... ako ani kay di raman ko mag puyo ani sa amung balay, musibat rako...mouli lang ting kaon, usahay di na gani ko matog sa amu balay, labi ng ing-ana mga paryente nya may edad na grabe pud ka hinugo. nah... ok ra unta kung pangasa lang, pero kun sige na,. aw.. mag hire na lang pud silag boy2x.

nya kanang ing-ana naay bata..sus hasula jud bitaw ana... labi na magpataka lang panghilabot ug mga butang2x,.nah ambot, pilpilon ko man gyud ng kamota. hehe...

nya ts, kanang imung cozn mag tabang2x raman kaha sa inyo? ok ra siguro na... palabha lang pud nas imung mga maong.

[bratz2777]

ka relate ko ana....free na gani cla tanan d nlng sad gyud mutabang tabang maski ginagmay...mamili pa og food....kapal!