Caught in the Middle

[desperada]

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just move on....lisod kaayo nang trust na jud ang maguba...kay gamayng sipyat naglain na imong huna2x...kay wala naman kay salig....

[chrisgon]

chrisgon: partly ing ana ang akong situation pero it's not really mine, lahi man ang sa akoa though naa lang similarity gamay, 3rd party case...

..thanks chris.... at least, naa sad ko ma share sa akong friend og sa akong self.

wat do u mean 3rd party?? ikaw maoy na 3rd party or ang other girl??

[floppy]

tell the guy... that he is being selfish. Ask him if he loves u not just that he doesn't want to lose u. There is a difference. We don't want to lose our friends but it doesn't mean we love them. Ask him about "situational events" [just made that up] like...

ask him "what if we decide to have dinner somewhere and watch a movie, and she [the other person] calls you and asks you to be with her, what will you choose?". In short, find out how much you weigh/matter to him. You simply cant be an OPTION. But most importantly, tell him you love him.

Make him fall in love with you more...
Spend time with him

In short, if you love him and you value your relationship. Then try to work it out first before letting it go. So that no matter what happens, you can tell him... "I fought for u..."

[ArCkz]

You're making things complicated. If ganahan ka samok imong life then stick to your gf/bf knowing sa inyo present situation.

If ganahan ka nga way samok then change channel nalang.

[Sol_Itaire]

move on nalang. less stressful.

[kiekim]

Fight for it for your own satisfaction so that you won't end up regretting things in the end BUT if she's not willing to let go of the othe person inspite of all the things and feelings showed as in dreadfully uncompensated then hey! free your self obviously "taphaw na gugma" na iyaha! hayz! don't be tied with the " mind is wiiling but the heart is not" thing...sakitsakit lang sa dughan,labad sa ulo,kalas sa panahon....tsktsktsk!

[miss tapya]

wat do u mean 3rd party?? ikaw maoy na 3rd party or ang other girl??

....... ang girl sa akong friend ang naay third party


@floppy: thanks ...

[jre]

sa pag ingon pa lang niya nga love niya kato isa start najud kag move on,,,,kay laktod pagka storya dli xa nahan mawala ka pro ang isa ya gi love...tanga nalang ang taw mag pa bilin sa ingon ana nga sitwasyon...siguro kung niana xa nimu nga need xag time to think kay puro mo niya love kana guro makahatag pakag time niya na mu pili ninyo asa xa,,let go nalng kay tan aw nako defense mechanism rato niya nga ana xa nimu dli xa gusto mawa ka niya haron dli kau sakit ba sa imu side..

[pankie101]

wtf! kung ang isa iyang love...ngano mag-tiyaga mnka niya wui!??!
helerr?? naa pay laing laki nga ika'y pilion over a hundred million others!
why settle when you know you're gonna get less??
of course palabion niya tong iyang love!

the line only means one thing..
HE IS SELFISH.

[miss tapya]

ang akong giingon sa akong friend. MAybe Bootan ra gyud sad kaayo sad xa maong ang girl mag lisod og let go sa iyaha. sayangan ba sa iyang pagkatao. mao cguro nga maski ug love nya tong usa ka laki, magpabilin silang uyab sa akong migo.. tsk tsk.. selfish gyud.

ako bitaw giingnan akong migo nga daghan pa LALAKI gasayal. ..