Do looks really matter?

[mata_hari]

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most may contend that beauty is only skin deep. you set ideal pictures for THE ONE. but when the time comes, it really doesn't matter. when you try to select people at face value , you are in the stage wherein INSECURITY is a big issue for you. somehow, it could be equated that the shallow you choose your partner, it particularly tells who your are. "Tell me who you love and i will tell you what type of person you are"

[ej___]

I agree. :mrgreen:

To summarize, LOOKS are just for 1st impression.
While CHARACTER/PERSONALITY is for long term.

[sassyces]

Initially, yes, it does matter. How can a person be romantically interested in someone that he/she doesn't find pretty/goodlooking (at least in his/her eyes.. hehehe ). However, in the long run, it's the person's attitude that will determine if he/she is a catch.

[kyuusai]

^ agree. but i say, it all depends on ones preferences. i for one prefers to matter what is the inner look of a person--- though.

[ej___]

Depende pud d-i ni sa edad. :mrgreen:

There are young ladies and lad who do prefer the outer self appearance.

Mature ladies mostly consider it as 2nd priority referrence. Una ang character. :mrgreen:

Mostly mature guys still prefer good looking women. Then, next na ang character. If bati gani ug batasan ang babaye, biya dayon after sa tanan.

[Onins]

Yes matter jud na oi! kay mao man ang start ana maAttract ka sa looks then u will fall in love kung buotan. It is not what you base your selection of the one, but it is a factor that will especially play in the beginning. Kana ingon na dili jud importante? two things lang EITHER pangit sad kaayo sila na dili kapili ug gwapo/gwapa OR gwapo/gwapa sila ungya chika2 lang na dili impt kuno, tan.awon nato if naa manguyab ninyo ug maot, i bet dili magdugay ipadakop ninyo sa pulis!

[Dorothea]

does it?

It matters to me. It would be so hypocritical of me to say that it doesn't because although looks should never be the sole reason why you go into a relationship with someone, it does play a role. There has to be physical attraction between two people for a relationship to work. We are physical beings, after all. You have to "desire" your partner. Otherwise, what's the point, right?

[mata_hari]

yeah it greatly matters when your LIBIDO is strongly involve in it

[timmyduncan]

don't think so. it depends sa person.....

[Shofu]

basta love nimu ang person magwafa ug gwafo man judna sa ato panan-aw. As for me, Im at a stage now nga i dont need someone with a hot body, he can be overweight and have belly. Its very much about style, substance,humor,interests and being smart.