Long Distance Relationships

[jugs_06]

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it was march of 2005 that i last saw my gf.. never saw her again since..

[miss tapya]

....juggy we are on the same boat.. twas february 2005 wen i last have the hug of my pikot

[sassy_suzzy]

i saw my bf 5 months ago....

1 month na lang and we'll see each other again...

kapoy huwat uy, but its worth it even if naa misundertsandings usahay

[baboy]

if tinood dyd ng g bati inyo dyd tarongon if feeling ninyo walay claro aw di ayaw sd taronga, sayang mn sd kng mgbinoang nya tarong ang bae or laki sa inyo.. ana lng gd

bawsanay?? naaaa mao ... :P

wala mana pasabot na balsanay... i mean kng walay claro ang bae or laki ayaw nlng taronga kay ur just wasting time & naa pay dghan tao imo ma meet sayang panahon.. :mrgreen:

[miss tapya]

i really don't know if i could still hold on.............. it seems that the rope of my hope has loosen the moment everyday....

[baboy]

@misstapya: hona hona dyd og maayo.. think kng unsa imo future ani na relationship unsa ba dyd para dli mag mahay.... dghn pa kaayo tao sa kalibutan na u will meet.. bsta hona hona lng misstapya

[miss tapya]

@yobabski dospordos: tenchu ... i will i will.. hafit na....

ahayyyyyyyy hate what am feeling ryt now with this LDR thingy.. ewwwwww

[jugs_06]

^^^^ i don't blame you.. i feel the same way.. d na maihap ang times nga maka huna2x ko to give up the relationship nalang.. cya pud (ako gf) smtyms mka huna2x og give up.. kay d na daw niya kaya.. kesho mao ni, mao na.. bt everytime she tells me that.. i always try to let her understand our situation.. nga dili pwede prmi nalang ko naa para niya.. that i have to have a life for our own future sad..

char!! ka adrams nko wui..

char!!

[Pink Rain]

well, does it work or not? Is it worth a try? How do you stay positive when your involve with someone far away from you........

care to share an experience perhaps?....well only if Â*u got one...

*sigh*....just wanna know...

All my past relationships were long distance. Having gone through two intense serious long distance relationship... would you consider me as the expert?Â* Through it all, it was perfect... or so I thought.Â*

Ironic thing is I broke up with my first relationship when we had the chance to be together in the same city.Â* We started the courtship process long distance.Â* It was seamless. Technology was to our advantage.Â* Email, cellphone, snail mail, telephone... All sorts of connection we did it.Â* And despite the distance we felt we were bonded with love. No fights, no arguments. Perfect! But when we were together, we broke up.Â* There were lots of things we dicovered from each other that cannot be revealed in all the technological access.Â* We were not masking, but there are things that you have to see for yourself.Â* Habits, idioscynracies, mannerisms, etc.. It was difficult.Â* Insight:Â* You need to spend time with that person first to get to know more of him/her

My second relationship was with a long college friend, it was a friendship that blossomed into love.Â* I felt comfortable and compliant in engaging the relationship with him - despite our distance, because I knew him ever since college.Â* I know a lot about him more than I did with my first.Â* It was also good.Â* Despite our distance I felt secure. We also tapped the resources of technology and other forms of communication to be in touch with each other everyday.Â* But we broke up.. because of another girl.Â* Insight: Most of the men, need prefer physical companionship.

You see in all my relationships, I never experienced a no distance relationship.Â* When do I learn my lesson?Â* Wel,, at least for now, here's wishing that I get to have that chance...

As for you.Â* You decide.Â* It would be unfair for you to generalize my experience and compare it with yours.Â* There is no quick and fast formula for a successful relationship.Â* Distance or no distance, it boils down on how both of you love, trust and respect each other. It is not about the distance. It is about the love and the lovers.

I wish you luck, and if you need more advice, just lemme know

[rickmags2000]

^^^^ i don't blame you.. i feel the same way.. d na maihap ang times nga maka huna2x ko to give up the relationship nalang.. cya pud (ako gf) smtyms mka huna2x og give up.. kay d na daw niya kaya.. kesho mao ni, mao na.. bt everytime she tells me that.. i always try to let her understand our situation.. nga dili pwede prmi nalang ko naa para niya.. that i have to have a life for our own future sad..

char!! ka adrams nko wui..

char!!

hi,

hold on guys and dont give up as of yet Pink Rain is right There is no quick and fast formula for a successful relationship...still it is worth doing your best to keep that relationship, to give it everything youve got to let it grow and nurture it...think of it as a journey that in the end it will be the two of despite the hurdles and regoirs you have gone through ultimately youll be together again, and you will look back at this moment of your life and you will have nothing but fond memories of it and smile at those moments when you both thought you wont make it...

good luck