family that don't respect your decisions..

[bowee]

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On the contrary.. Men in the Middle East are quite timid..

if you show your stuffs there.. then your really going for the kicks... if you know what I mean..

In Saudi, they have the religious police there called Mutawah.. and they are really strict with their laws.. Moslem laws that is...

@TS
In Saudi, My advice..."Just behave and do what the Romans do.."; and you should be okay. I should know. My gf is working there as well...

[seppuku]

from what i'v heard..ofw working in the hospitals are safe since they have their own compounds to stay into and a bus that fetches them from the hospital then drop u off sa compound..but still, we should not let our guard down der jd..

wa man jd ko ga-expect na madawat ko ani nga job..apply2x lng gd..lisod pd adto lain countries if u dnt hav d cash jd..i don't know if this is a sign dat it's time for me to go or unsa ba..go wid d flow lng gd ko..if mamatay den mamatay,hehehe..

dugay nman sad ko cge ingon sa ko mom na mg-lain na jd ko pero hangyo xa nga di sa..unsa daw gamit sa balai na dako if di ko mgpuyo ngadto..makasabot ra daw xa if muhawa ko tungod sa work but awa lang ron, ngkagubot nuon tungod naa nko chans makagawas and work..pure work rman pd ako tuyo pra maka-save up lng for the future, i think dats not a crime..di lng jd cla musabot..

karon, ni-ask ko if my mom could give me some money for pocket money lng unta ngadto but gi-ingnan ra jd ko na wa na daw xai savings..murg ngsakit jd ako heart ana coz ako sis nangayo og money niya bag-o lng for her to fix d car, it was around 27k and in an instant, gihatag sa ako mom niya..my mom is well off jd and i don't tink wa xai kwarta na..klaro lng jd na di jd ko nila suportaan ani..but cge nlng..mangutang nlng ko ani og loan company or frm someone..haaiz jd!

i don't hate my family.. i just want to live on my own lang unta ba..it doesn't mean na di nko mubalik..dey tink na mamatay na ko ngadto if adto ko ngadto mu-work..lisod au na sabton sa ila part..if dey won't support me financially, at least ma-suport lang unta emotionally ba..

[egeneveve]

Your family is so mean..

[pugak_79]

^^^ you mentioned you wanted to take up architecture or fine arts.. was nursing your own decision or sa imu family?

[seppuku]

i told dem before dat i wanted to take up architecture or fine arts..but they insisted to take up nursing since it's the profession of my mom and it would be practical and lisod daw pangita work as a architecture or if ur a fine arts graduate..but my mom told me that i cud take any course i want after i graduate in nursing and pass the board..after i passed d board, i asked her if i cud take up architect na, my just said "okay, but out of your own money na since pwede nka makakita og job as a nurse."...wa ko katingog..wa nlng jd ko..

[rjje]

kung unsa imo gusto bro ikaw jd masunod bsan dili sila mu sugot karon sooner or later makasabot rana sila nmu.

[cesski]

from what you said and from what i've seen sa atong pagkuyog (maski kadyot lang), i think you're responsible, you can take care of yourself and so is your girlfriend. if this is your decision, then stand by it. maski ako nasakitan man ko sa imu giingon about your parents and sister not supporting you financially. makarelate ko somehow. unsa man diay conflict ninyo sa imu papa if you don't mind me asking?

anyway, stick to your decision, i'm sure your gf will stand by you as long as you treat each other well and i know you both will. give your parents and your sister the final word on when you're leaving. they can do nothing about it because you're over 18. make sure you say i love you to your family sa airport. para makahibaw sila ba. di lagi na kaagwanta na in bad terms mo. i pray for the both of you, your success, safety and well-being. dali ra nang 2 years. kita-kits lang nya puhon. typar nya ta puhon like it's the end of the world as you always say. hehehe

[seppuku]

i hope mgkta ta balik cess..

feel nman gud nila mamatay nko padung..but if that is the case den i would rather die fighting than die in depression (char)..come what may...go to the deep sea of the unknown than in shallow waters...

[cesski]

magkita patag balik ui. binuang anang dili noh! wa ta kbaw sa saudi ta magkita! charot murag naay kwarta! ana jud! keep your head up, stand by your decision, never let anyone tell you what to do. it's your life and you make the rules. tanan-tanan challenge rana gibutang sa Ginoo. tan-awn Niya kung kaya ba nimu ang ka-hang sa lamas sa kinabuhi. dah! ba-ba!

[seppuku]

hahaha! lagi, God will make a way..hehehe..nhan au ko musimba na..after lagi ani tanan kai musimba ko..hehehe