
Originally Posted by
unsay_ngalan_nimo
dpende ra gyud tingali na sa taw oi...
the number of annulment cases being filed in our courts are increasing every year...
other than marriage having a higher moral high ground daw, living-in is more practical... historically trial marriage is allowed and prevalently practiced during the pre-spanish era..
there are just people who are not yet ready for a commitment na nirerepresent ng marriage... if we have an absolute divorce here in the philippines masdagha pa gyud pilipino magminyo na later magbuwag lang...
depende ra gyud na asa ka komportable.. asa magkagsinabot ang mga couples... there are live-in couples that are alot happier than other married counterparts...
in marriage you cannot undo what is done, annulment is pretty expensive and really difficult to get...
while in living-in there is still that sense of individuality, although you can say that you've given a part of yourself to that person, but you know that if anything goes wrong you, you can still get that part back and lead your own life because nothing binds you to that person other than the love and respect you have for each other and if that two things are gone you have no reason to stay... and no one can force you stay in that relationship...